Polite to reply even if not interested

Quote by Daisyppp

Men put such emphasis on their penis, perhaps my opinion is in the minority but I don't see why, no offense to anyone but the genitals aren't as interesting as the banter, a stimulating conversation, a desire to enjoy mutual fun... 🤷‍♀️

And hence the reason a lot of single guys on here don't get very far. They haven't quite figured that out yet. I don't have a single dick pic on my profile, not even in my private photos. Only way someone is going to see it is in person. 🙂

I can’t reply as I don’t pay 😬 I didn’t realize it was a paid feature until the first few free ran out

Quote by BeaFree

I can’t reply as I don’t pay 😬 I didn’t realize it was a paid feature until the first few free ran out

And now that you know, will you use your 3 messages a day saying No to people?

Or in engaging with people you're interested in.

Yep. All good.

If a member has taken the trouble to write then , i its not rubbish, why not reply?

My bio is pretty detailed in terms of no face pic no convo, if you send a face pic I will always reply either with a positive message or a you’re not the look I go for. But if you message with no face pic I take it you didn’t bother to read my profile which tells me you’re just flicking off similar messages to many hoping for fun from wherever you can get it from.

If I responded to every “Hi” or every “ how deep can you deepthroat “🙄 Id be wasting my time engaging with men I have absolutely no attraction towards.

There are a lot of men on here who have absolutely ruined it for single men.

I’d like to personally thank all the a$$hats who give SM’s a bad name. 😡

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I’d like to personally thanks all the a$$hats who give SM’s a bad name. 😡

You're restrained, I've thought bad, bad thoughts about some of these asshat SMs and their fuckery.

Well… I don’t bear the brunt of the a$$hatery. You (and other F’s on this site) easily have permission to have more negative thoughts on the subject. 🫤

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You're restrained, I've thought bad, bad thoughts about some of these asshat SMs and their fuckery.

We will usually reply unless its obvious they haven't even read our profile..We have also been here before so know who a lot of the timewasters are as well. They dont get a reply either...

Yes it's tricky to work through the time wasters and bullshitters to get to the genuine people.

So many peeps on here misrepresenting themselves and their intent - I'm all good if someone's on here for a little attention, happy to provide if you're interesting, but be straight up!

If you're not going to meet or play, don't say you are! Some fab profiles who straight up say they're keen for pic swaps and camming but have no interest in more!

Primo, say what you actually want and you're more likely to get it without wasting anyone else's time!

I dont quite get the pic swapping thing there's plenty of porn sites If you just want to look at pics..we have a couple we will swap but are a bit wary of where they can end up

Yeah to each their own, but for myself a pic is infinitely more sexy if I know the subject... 😉

Ever since a friend with a single fem profile showed me her KS homepage with literally thousands of notifications and hundreds of unopened mail, no, I don't consider it rude/impolite to not reply to messages even when genuine and thoughtfully-crafted.

I think this boils down to an issue of perspective where the KS user experience between men and women is so hugely different that they can't be compared. Female-owned profiles get SO MUCH unsolicited engagement.

Hell, just look at the ratio of likes between pics posted by men and women - it's common for women to get 50+ likes and multiple comments on a pic after a few days - who knows how many private messages that translates to. I couldn't imagine managing that much engagement! It seems pretty easy for one genuine message to slip between the cracks, or, honestly, seeing it but not having the energy to engage with it.

Even when you've read a profile and taken the time to craft a thoughtful message, you need to accept that yours could still be the 100th message received that week. As others have said, no reply or leaving you on 'seen' is still a reply and no one is entitled to a response no matter how nice/relevant their message is. It is what it is.

Don't take it personally, just move on and you're that much closer to your next encounter.

Hear hear Troj, very well said! 👍😊

Quote by Troj

no one is entitled to a response no matter how nice/relevant their message is. It is what it is.

Don't take it personally, just move on and you're that much closer to your next encounter.

Great Post Troj! Totally agree with it all, and the above really resonated.