Well I can only talk about our experiences. Looking back it all started by accidents in another country. We were lucky enough to meet a very nice couple that introduced us into swinging very slowly and took their time with plenty of advice. They introduced us to other couples and we all had a great time. We would always meet socially first. And there was never any expectations other than to meet an interesting couple, have lots of laughs and probably talk some shit. Playing was never disgust. Later Pete or Sharon would get back to us if play was on the agenda. That was when we were very young. When we returned to New Zealand, playing was put on the back burner and we focused more on raising a family. We had a lot of experiences but to be honest very few were from sites like this. Although at least it got us started and allowed us to meet some long time friends. Over the years we have seen a change in this site. It used to be full of genuine people wanting to meet other people but now the number of dishonest time wasters and bull shitters has increased. You can never get to much advice, but have no expectations, move slowly, don't do anything your not comfortable with and have good and honest dialogue with your partner is key.

We have had quite a few gangbangs. The first one is very nerve racking, it is a bit of a learning curb so hopefully this will reduce the pitfalls. It is very addictive and as I said the first time it is very nerve racking so you are going to need to probably do it more than once before you truly enjoy it. Safety is a big issue so plenty of communication beforehand is essential. Go slowly and keep the initial numbers small. You probably want a repeat performance and don't want to scare your partner off the idea. A previous messenger messaged that there are a lot of no shows or bullshitters and time wasters and that is very true. If you ask for a small financial contribution they are more likely to turn up if they have shelled out a few dollars. On my profile you will see that I have written a story entitled..... " Fantasy Gangbangs "..... have a read, it may give you some ideas. And if you're a little bit more daring try reading my story........" One Off The Bucket List " it sounds pretty unsafe and involved a lot of people. But sometimes it's all just an illusion. If your interested to know how we achieved it, message me back. Always remember the more people involved the harder it is to control and stay safe.

My partner and I used to get off being watched so now I guess it's time to stop being the watched and be the watcher.

Very good game. To answer Mackinrows questions.....Sort of. She worn a full head mask and tied me to the bed. We had messaged each other a lot before hand and we had a bet which I lost, and to be an anonymous person's play thing was my punishment. It was extremely erotic. I did get to see what she looked like later on. ( her lucky husband ) !!! Have you ever been tired up, blindfolded and gang banged ?