I tend to buy my own birthday presents - have done for years - several reasons - I get what I want - I'm probably abit fussy lol. This year I wanted something special - a trip for myself and my partner - to finally get to meet and hopefully play with a man I've been communicating regularly with for approx 18 months... it's one of those.... "it's complicated relationships" - but on steroids lol. I'm NOT going into it all here but suffice it to say that although I'd not ever done this type of thing before ie: traveled so far/spent so much - I felt it was worth it - plus we'd not actually gotten to see Christchurch when we'c been down there last because of lack of time etc. He met us at the airport - a hand shake for my partner - a huge hug and kiss for me - um yum {I'd seen him on cam and photos of him so obviously recognized him - it's always interesting though when you do finally meet someone that you've only communicated via phone and txt/cam etc} . Walking out together there was a nice mix of respect and a little exhibition thrown in.... At the motel we all knew there was limited time - other things to do - people to meet - ways to serve.... One of my favorite things is being with 2 men even though it can be tricky sorting out what works for each individual - for me I want both in me at the same time- various holes to maximum depth. As long as they work together and treat me with respect - responding to what I'm doing/enjoying as well - rather than just focusing on what they want. This was achieved lol - dp of all sorts of combinations - with my partner also taking photos etc whilst playing - I hope I get some of those photos/videos. I was VERY aware that this man doesn't get sex much AND that there was limited time together sexually - so at times made him my priority - I hope my partner who - lets be real here - can pretty much have me anytime any hole wasn't too put out by this.... in fact - I'd like to think maybe even turned on by watching - but understand that sometimes it's about sorting thru the various emotions we can feel at the time these things happen - my hope is that he knows I love him no matter who I'm with - and I do try to include him in some way always. He managed to stay the 2 nites with us - lets be real - the bed could have been bigger - but for me there's something so intimate about actually sleeping together. It's not something I want to do with everyone though - not that we all got that much sleep - and not because we were waking to have rampant sex throughout the nite sadly lol - ah well :] Because of the "it's complicated" part he had to leave us early in the mornings and come and go over the weekend however we made the most of our time together - doing what we could when we could - we got to see lots of Christchurch and got to see and do more than I'd hoped for sightseeing wise - spending time together etc - because it's not all about he sex - it's about the person/people - who they are/what they are about .... and in this circumstance it was upto me to make the first meeting happen at last. For me it'was the little things - the getting to know my partner and being respectful of him, the holding hands odd occasion , the thought/time put into thinking about what we'd enjoy doing/seeing , the odd naughty exhibition, the throat holding mmmmmmm, the holding of me, the making sure everyone had their time, FINALLY getting to actually meet, having him IN me, actually feeling his cock twitch in me when he came {I've never felt that before}, getting to serve.... Arrived home knackered sigh - thank goodness my partner takes the driving home leg of the trip..... Would I do it again... HELL YES - not sure when or how but I sincerely hope that even though it's possibly not ging to be able to be that often or that easy to get together.... there are some people that are easy to be around - that it's easier to make the effort for. I've said all along that I want friends with benefits - rather than just people to fuck - and this is a man that fits that description.... life gets complicated at times however if we can stay open and communicate who knows what can happen .... My theory is that life can be short - it's easy to get into working too hard/too much etc - so live.... hopefully this was the first of many adventures/possibly travel.....