This story starts in 2022.. January 22nd to be exact.. The Kickdown festival is on just outside Whangamata. We've opened our home up to about 10 friends to use as our base for the weekend.
Aside from us there are two other people in this story we need to mention, they will go by the names T & D for this purpose. Both are long standing female friends of Mr N dating back to the mid 90s. T is a friend who has known about our journey into swinging from the start. She's always been super inquisitive into the lifestyle and loves hearing how our dates go.
Then there is D.. Mr N dated D briefly back at the age of about 19. It was short lived perhaps a few months long but parting ways on good terms and remaining friends throughout the years.
Anyway back to the festival, we had a great time with our crew of friends.. The bands were awesome and we rocked out under a clear Summers day in the heat and into the evening. Caught our bus back home after the gig and with a bit of booze in us after a long day, we all retreated to our beds pretty quick.
Waking up on Sunday we were all quite hung over, some more than others. As people gathered themselves together and started departing for home we were left with just two friends remaining T&D. We chatted most of the morning with these two as we hadn't seen either of them for quite some time before this weekend. T not only knew about our sex life, unknowingly to us she also knew a bit about Ds. I can't recall exactly what popped into conversation but T let slip that we had been exploring with women and almost immediately mentioned D was bi... An after thought was perhaps she wasn't throwing us under the bus but perhaps a setup to connect us!! Normally you might be angry to just get exposed to another friend like that.. But T is well aware of all of our relationships and we are quite a tight group of friends so didn't mind D finding out that way.. As you can imagine our conversations took a bit of a turn.. A few questions started getting asked as curiosity grew.. One of our first questions to D was are you on KS? Which she was not. We asked her a little about her encouters and she returned with some questions of her own. We had a pretty open conversation going for about an hour before both T&D decided it was time to leave also.
A few conversations took place between myself and Mrs N after they left. We would joke about scenarios with D.. But always come back to the 'it would never happen'. We've never played with a friend, not sure it's the right step to take and very doubtful we were even her type.
Not too long after this weekend we ended up on a date with someone else from KS, hitting things off with this new woman instantly. We ended up seeing her pretty regularly over a number of months, practically every 2nd weekend, sometimes two in a row! We started becoming suggestive with her a little on our social platforms and exposed ourselves a little to vanilla friends and family. We gave enough to be questioned but not enough to be definitive if that makes sense. D had been watching this from the sidelines and would occasionally message to say she thinks it's hot what we are doing. Dating this new woman, we quite often brought her tickets to events we were heading too for the company and bring her along. However our relationship with her ended quite suddenly when she ended up finding a partner, we were left with a series of tickets we had purchased for her. One was an All Blacks game in Hamilton. As the date got nearer we had to make a decision to try sell one spare ticket or bring another friend with us. D is about the only friend we have in Hamilton so offered it to her. She took us up on it and suggested we stay at her place so we can head out after the game.
The weekend of the game rolled around. I won't lie the idea of D started getting thrown around again in the lead up to this weekend, almost teasing each other with it but always getting dismissed like before.. Not because we weren't interested.. More because she's a friend, we've kept things quite separate and never engaged sexually with friends before. D is very attractive, although she is single that's by choice, she doesn't have any issues attracting people that's for sure!
On our arrival D said we had her bed for the night, she would crash out in her kids room (that were away for the weekend). We told her we were fine with the couch but she insisted.
We headed out to the game, the All Blacks win convincingly setting the tone for a fun night ahead.. After the game D suggests a bar so we Uber to that. The girls had bit of a dance, coming back and feeding me a shot every now and again. The night disappears quick into the early hours and we decide we are all pretty drunk and to head home to Ds place. Once there I lay on the couch while the girls talk gibberish.. I feel myself drifting off when Mrs N tells me to head to bed.. She guides me to the room where I basically fall fully clothed and pass out.
This next part of the story is a fill in from Mrs N as obviously I'm asleep at this point.
The girls started dressing down for bed, removing faces etc as they do. Mrs N is in the bathroom and as she comes out in her jammies and ready for bed sees D on the bed with myself fast asleep on the other side.. She's laying in a black nightie in an inviting posture. Unsure, Mrs N hops into bed. Before she could think too much.. D makes a move on her catching her completely off guard. (All of our play at this point has always involved a discussion about consent, that's just gone out the window in a spontaneous moment .. Mrs N was hesitant at first knowing I was asleep and unaware.. But ultimately knew I wouldn't care). They kiss for a bit then pause to try and wake me.. But I'm out to it.. Unsuccessful, they continue with what they started pausing again to take a photo with their tits out. They send it to our group chat so I'll wake to it in the morning and be like WTF.
They carry on and it starts getting a bit more heated.. D moves her head down between Mrs Ns legs and starts going for the orgasm.. Mrs N is still in two minds as to how I would react to all of this, we really didn't think anything would ever eventuate even though it had been joked about. So she started hitting my arm to wake me as she was getting close to cumming.. This time successfully.. I wake to movement, I don't know exactly what it is at that point but I know I've been woken on purpose .. The lights are out, it's dark and I'm drunk.. I hear D giggle from between Mrs N legs as Mrs N reaches over to kiss me me mid moan so I soon work it all out.. Immediately I have a lot of questions pop into my head.. One I recall almost instantly asking was 'how did this all happen? ' and 'who started what? ' but the girls just laughed me off and carried on.. The next thing that popped into my head was I didn't bring condoms! That's the point where I knew my involvement would be limited but at the same time I didn't mind that.. Assisting the girls where I could was equally as hot as just watching and feeling what they were doing.. My head is absolutely racing, let's just recap... an ex GF is hooking up with my wife!! shouldn't that be a porn script or something!!
We eventually started to fizzle out as the tiredness took over and the sun was well and truly up by this point.. We slept to about lunchtime then got up to start our journey home.. Absolutely buzzing from the night we realized this is a new endeavor for us.. A friend.. What does this mean for us and our friendship from here?
Well it was the start of something that still continues today.. Although not as frequent as we would like we've continued to play with D on every occasion we see her and there's been a few now. We tend to have the next date planned pretty quick after the last, even if it's something 6mths away.. In between our dates we message frequently in our group chat, occasionally we share nude photos but for the most part it's back to friend mode. However when we see her it's very different, it's instant flirt, buildup and touching.. It's like we saw her the night before regardless of how long it has been. That itself is kind of sexy... a hidden relationship, a silent arrangement even. She has started recently to be a bit more obvious with us in front of our other friends which we welcome.. They are yet to question it directly but we know they've seen enough to know what's going on. However as long as it works for us and it works for her.. I guess that's all that matters!
She just spent a week with us over the Christmas holidays. Even though our friendship dates back to the 90s it was the first time our kids have met. We all got on so well and operated like a unit, it was such a cool vibe! After we got kids to bed we had a bit of adult fun staying up to the wee hours but then come morning turn back into parents.. It was a hot little scenario!
We have the next two weekends booked with her, a concert and a woman's fishing comp (where the girls will be left to party alone for that 👭🏻.) We don't often get a lot of time with her but this year has started out strong. Perhaps it'll continue or perhaps not.. We will let her get as close as she is comfortable with!
Ultimately D is looking for her forever man and we know that day will come.. But for now we will let this unfold and enjoy it for what it's worth. We are glad we got thrown under the bus in a conversation that day two years ago ❤️
