Hi! I'm a 33 year old chef, just moved to New Zealand. Originally from California. I've been wanting to be a more active person in the scene for several years but only recently started going onto Fetlife and actually making it a priority in my life. Really exciting right?

Have major dom tendencies. I don't give up control or switch easily but I can if the vibe is right or it's discussed beforehand (Hence the profile picture). Really interested in exploring that side of myself as I never have before

Would love some help with rope work! I want to know more and a partner willing to let me practice would be great

Can anyone explain why Antarctica has such a healthy kink scene...?

Vanilla stuff:

Would be great to also have vanilla interests with other people!

Music: that's my jam (get it?) I listen to a massively wide range of music and I'm always looking for more. I go through phases, currently on an indie kick

Cooking: I love cooking for other people

Movies: Especially the weird ones. Or good ones. Fuck, even the bad ones if we're drinking and talking shit

Travel: It's why I'm in Auckland!

Nerdy things: Used to be heavily into gaming, DnD, sci-fi/fantasy. Haven't been into it as much but would be keen to start again

Working out: Take me to the gym? Working on those gainz