(New to the site and still on the free version for now, so messages are limited)

Hey there

I'm an ENM guy that has just moved to Queenstown, just looking to live life to the fullest and meet good people for genuine connection first - and if it feels right, some hot fun too.

I'm primarily looking to meet single women and couples.

In terms of couples, I've had a few great experiences as a third and would love to have some more. My ideal situation is the three of us get to know each other over a low pressure drink or walk, with good conversation plus a little flirty energy. Once that initial connection is established, we can take things further.

In the bedroom I'm all about mutual, sensual fun for everyone, and happy to draw things out with some slow teasing while we enjoy each other's bodies - I love a hot woman-centric threesome and I'm happy to be invited to share this experience with you both. And just to add, if it feels right, I'd be open to gently exploring my queerness with some light heteroflexibility too if that's a part of your dynamic, but it's definitely not a requirement.

With single women, I'm looking for like minded folks with similar interests for friendship and/or hopefully hot fun. I typically enjoy sensuality and build up, outdoor fun, and am open to a bit of exploration.

I don't have a tonne of experience with kink, but with the right person I'm definitely open to exploring different scenarios. You can check out some of my vanilla interests below for that side of things.

Vanilla wise I'm into being outside and moving my body (hiking/canoeing/running), dance parties and music, riding my bike around the city, and lying in the sun reading a book, preferably near a body of water.

I travel a bit, and am somewhat looking to move more towards a semi nomadic lifestyle, and I'm currently focusing on leaning into hobbies and building skills, for example cooking, making, fixing.

I value curiosity, open mindedness, a sense of adventure, and a love of new experiences. I tend to move through the world with a gentle, respectful energy.

I like to have good conversation and build a connection before play, unless there's an instant energetic vibe because we're just so attracted to each other. If it feels like a fit, I'd love to hear from you.