What am I after? First of all and most important, a connection based on trust .An ongoing connection, to mutually satisfy both needs and wants whether that is friendship or something more personal, with the intent of the friendship being ongoing.
Im not wanting or after a relationship as im happy with my life. 
So if this is what you are looking for,  dont be shy and make a connection.

About me - Im a fit and healthy  individual who works in, at times a stressful job, that can be rewarding in many ways. I have many interests from travel and recreational activities to being open minded enough to just about try anything new. :-) To put it this way if it feels good it cant be wrong. Respectful, good sense of humour looking for NSA fun based on mutual respect and privacy. 

I enjoy extended foreplays... giving pleasure is how i get my pleasure, build-up, anticipation and excitement is a big turn on. I also enjoy sensual fun- you set the limits and i will respect them

I value decency, intellect and good conversation above appearance and physical attributes.

I'm open to all shapes, sizes and ethnicities - just be yourself!