New to polyamory and exploring independent dating at my own pace (with my partners consent). I’m a slow burn kind of guy - I need a genuine connection to grow over time before romantic feelings develop. Not looking for one-night stands or casual hookups; I’d rather get to know someone and see where things naturally lead.

I’m in a newly opened relationship with my partner of 20 years, so I’m a little out of practice when it comes to flirting and romance! I’m open, honest, and pretty laid-back, and I believe the best connections start with being comfortable around each other, without pressure or expectations.

Originally from Ireland, but Aotearoa has been home for the past 20 years. I’m creative in the guitar-shaped sense - acoustic, electric, and always up for a good gig. When I’m not making or listening to music, you’ll likely find me walking, hiking, swimming, or just getting out and enjoying the views. Basically, strings, stages, and scenery.

I’m equally happy keeping things simple: good conversation over a coffee or a drink, a few laughs, and seeing if there’s a spark worth exploring.

If you’re someone who values genuine connection, enjoys taking things at a natural pace, and likes the idea of friendship potentially becoming something more, say hello or give my profile a like or a ping. No pressure, no expectations - lets get to know each other and see where we go.