Novice Bi-Curious Male looking for same to experience new things in a safe environment. I am very particular in what I am looking for so please read this profile to avoid wasting your time and mine.

Non Negotiables:-

1. I am looking for a first timer bi-curious person with no previous experience

2. Any situation where there is a potential transfer of bodily fluids will require safe sex practices to be adopted

3. Must be european

4. Absolute discretion expected and assured

I would prefer you to be over 45 but am willing to consider others. I would also prefer someone of "average" or below endowment and would also prefer as little body hair as possible but again, these are not necessarily deal breakers for the right person. I am not interested in or wanting hugging and kissing type intimacy - I am only looking to experience pleasure in the erogenous areas - mutual fondling, masturbation, oral, etc.

I am not from Christchurch but I travel there usually at least monthly and stay in the CBD. If I can find the right person then I can host for some play when I am in town.

I don't expect that my specific requirements will be met but I thought I would give this a try at least. I am not desperate, just have a level of curiosity that I am willing to explore in the right circumstances,