It's been a while, so time for an update!!

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You will most likely be speaking me me, M. I speak and screen potential partners to determine if there is a fit with our dynamic and to make sure we're all in agreement prior the fun.

In previous years, we have enjoyed a cuckold dynamic in which she would meet people alone. However, this placed most of the communication, screening, planning, and emotional and time labour on her. Going forward, I will take a more active role in arranging and participating in encounters.

My involvement can be hands-off or hands-on, depending on what everyone agrees to beforehand. Please note, recording and pictures is mandatory and apart of the arrangement. For those who don't like recording there's only one option, recording continues but any face/markings are removed. Unfortunately, if that is not enough then we are likely not the right couple for you.

My main role is to help her feel comfortable, keep communication flowing, and make the situation relaxed for everyone. I also want you to enjoy being inside of my partner too!

Safer-sex expectations will be discussed before meeting. Condoms are expected unless everyone has discussed recent STI testing. If you can provide proof then lets see those creampies!

She will have the final say on who we meet, as she is the person having sex with them. In general, we are looking for someone who is clean, respectful, discreet, well groomed, and able to communicate clearly.

People who prefer a dominant role are welcome, provided that dominance remains consensual and within agreed boundaries. I am comfortable taking a back seat. We ask that you are gentle with your hands, as some people have previously been too rough.

Dunedin is a small place, so there is a reasonable chance we may see each other again. If that happens, we can either acknowledge each other privately or simply move on. Discretion matters. We are not interested in meeting anyone who would share details of our encounters or sex life with friends or other people.

Ideally, we would meet someone with whom we have good chemistry and who may become a casual friend or recurring fuck buddy. This kink seems to be relatively , so meeting respectful people who understand the dynamic would also be valuable.

For those interested...

Current total 'body count'/encounters: 27 (as of '26)

'26 - 0

'25 - 0

'24 - 1

'23 - 1

'22 - 2

'21 - 3