Actually a couple but sick of being hounded by single males

Have had a couple of ffm with wife and someone she meet we are actively looking for another bi female (she’s bi) for more, effectively dating both of us, we are young at heart and enjoy heading into town for a danced, or sitting in our man cave singing badly and having fun

Have teenage kids so hosting is few and far between

Could also look at couples, have once before but he was very pushy and put her off the idea a bit. Maybe was just one bad experience?

She has a low sex drive so need to be patient, I know I have to be