49, confident, easy-going and here to meet genuine, open-minded people who enjoy exploring and having fun.

I’m friendly, respectful, discreet and drama-free. I love good conversation, plenty of flirting and building some chemistry rather than treating this like a race to the bedroom.

I have a real interest in Shibari — I love the combination of trust, connection, creativity and the visual side of rope. It’s something I’d particularly enjoy sharing with someone who is already into it, or genuinely curious about exploring it.

I also know what I’m physically attracted to and I’m fairly particular when it comes to intimate chemistry. Without being too crude about it, I definitely have a preference for a fuller, softer, puffier look downstairs rather than a flatter appearance. It’s simply what catches my eye and gets my attention.

I’m comfortable in my own skin, know what I like, but I’m never pushy about it. Mutual attraction, boundaries, discretion and respect are important to me.

Interested in meeting women who are relaxed, genuine, adventurous and able to have a laugh. If there’s chemistry, let's see where it takes us.