We’re D. & K., a grounded and curious couple who are well traveled and established in the Kink scene.

No singles identifying as single males, sorry.

We won't reply to single guys or friend them.

He is an entrepreneurial spirit with a love for surfing, wellness, tech, and kink (Dom).

Kat is a warm, witty, intelligent woman with a lust for life, into both physical and creative pursuits, and keen on dressing up and kink (Switch).

Together, we practice Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and blend playfulness with depth, equally at home dancing at a music festivals and sexy parties, sharing stories over wine by the fire, or relaxing on the beach after a yoga class.

We share a strong bond based on honesty, emotional maturity, and laughter.

When we came together we agreed to leave Vanilla in the past and pursue sexually expansive and kinky adventures.

We’re open-minded, non-judgmental, and enjoy meeting couples or women who are kind-hearted, intelligent, and share an appreciation for life's adventures—whether that means friendship, connection, or simply expanding our circle.

What We’re Looking For:

We’d love to meet another couple (35–55ish) or women for kink home parties, attend swinging/ other events together, or nude beach time. We’re open to connections that start as friendship and see where things naturally lead.

Respect, emotional intelligence, and a sense of humour go a long way.

Let’s grab a drink and do a massage swap or watch each other playing to see how the chemistry is?

Preferred Activities: Tantric or similar massage exchanges (1st meeting), FMF, Bondage, Discipline, BDSM, Power Exchange, Impact Play, Sensory Deprivation, Edging, CIM, COB, Body Worship, and more.

Seeking: Couple or woman to join our dynamic.

We would consider a single male if you bring an established female friend, who confirms you can follow instructions and is plays with us.