With 2026 comes the chance to redefine what adventures await 😊 Always looking to learn and explore new things, active in the community for a number of years off and on; as life allows for!

I’m curious by nature and generally willing to explore most things at least once. Not everything has to become my thing 🤷‍♂️ sometimes the fun is discovering what makes someone else tick, stepping outside my own box, and seeing where curiosity leads. 😏

I travel a fair bit for work, but Palmy is home base 😋 Auckland, Wellington and Hamilton regularly feature; apparently making me geographically available for mischief lol

Outside of having adult fun and adventures, I’m usually buried in a book, geeking out over my latest obsession, sharing questionable memes, or letting a wildly perverted imagination get me into situations it probably shouldn’t. 👀

I’m also a recovering people-pleaser who’s realised I don’t actually want to stop pleasing people...I just want to be much more selective about who. And perhaps more importantly, I’m learning that I don’t always have to be the one doing the pleasing. Turns out I’m allowed to sit back and enjoy receiving some too. 😉

Still working on that last bit... but very willing to practise. 😈

Polyam so if you just want to talk about shared Google calenders then I can tell you all about colour coding and clashing schedules.