Been there, and now back again. Being a little older than my wife, I struggle to supply the extensive loving she deserves. I am not totally dysfunctional, but I am not like I used to be.

Turning a negative into a positive, I would sooner have my wife fully satisfied in the bedroom with us all involved rather than have her frustrated in silence.

We're interested in meeting someone for MMF experiences or a couple who are not expecting me to be the star of the show. Having said that, I have learnt to adapt and still have heaps of fun.

To get our attention, you will have to be someone who demonstrates they can hold a conversation, value genuine connections, has sensuality, and enjoys mutual pleasure.

You will not get our attention if you send a dick pic and or the standard canned response.

For us it is the whole experience, the lead up, the flirting and the anticipation that something MAY happen, you won't get to knock on the door and step into a role in a porn movie.

We're looking for encounters that feel natural and exciting for everyone involved, where chemistry and respect are the main attractions.