Discrete gentleman, experienced swinger over last 15 years. Originally from UK but have lived in numerous countries, arriving in NZ early 2026. Started swinging in Asia, where I preferred to spend time with couples - avoiding attachment to a specific person (although did have some frequent meets with certain couples) and enjoying the knowing environment of an established couple.

When i moved back to Europe, encounters were mixed with single women and established couples. The single women tended to be one of two groups - older than me and less inhibited (I love giving oral and this was always superbly well received!) and inexperienced ladies to the lifestyle. I am not a guy to tell you I will fuck you silly or claim to have a giant cock, so works well with a woman who wants to feel at ease quickly and not feel any pressure.

What I have, I work well with. I am 167cm in height,mid 40s, 6 inch cock, amazing tongue skills, look younger and am not a chizzled body builder with a sideline as a model. But, I have never had any complaints...in fact, only ever the opposite.

So, if you prefer someone to converse with about what we are doing, feel at ease and open to all ideas, I am worth talking with. I won't push, hassle or bullshit....so, don't expect me to chase! Anyway, hope to chat soon with single ladies or couples who have read this and found it a little refreshing.