Thanks for stopping by!

I've been enjoying the lifestyle for a while now and have a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for. Ideally I'd love to meet people aged around 45–60 who enjoy building a genuine connection. Friends with benefits suits me best—I like good conversation over drinks and nibbles, plenty of flirting, touching and kissing, then seeing where the chemistry takes us.

I'm not looking for a relationship, but I'm not interested in one-offs either. Life's too short for endless messaging, so if we seem like a good match I'd much rather meet for a drink and see if we click.

Outside of the lifestyle, I enjoy getting out in the fresh air on my mountain e-bike or gravel bike, spending time with friends, and making the most of life. I'm down-to-earth, genuine, respectful and honest, and I appreciate those qualities in others too.

I'm probably more introverted at first, and I've been told I have a bit of a "good girl" vibe... although that doesn't usually last very long. 😉

I'm generally more attracted to men, although I certainly don't mind a little female attention if the situation is right.

I can only accommodate occasionally, so Wellington locals, or people who visit Wellington regularly and can accommodate, are preferred.

If you're genuine, respectful, and looking for the same sort of connection, I'd love to hear from you.