Calm. Grounded. Intentional.

Steady pressure, not chaos.

If that makes sense to you, say hello.

I've had a number of experiences in this scene and know what I like. Mostly looking for single women or those who are happy to play alone. I've been a third for couples a few times and I realize I need a bit more intimacy than that to enjoy the experience. That's not to say it can't be amazing but kissing and connection is part of how I experience and give pleasure. Sex is not just an act, it's sharing an incredible experience and performative fucking isn't my thing. I haven't been in group situation so that could be something to look forward to. Also not adverse to a relationship and FWB is definitely preferable over ONS.

I'll be in Wellington for most of February and March. Would love to catch-up with some of the locals.