i used to be on this site 2 years ago so rejoining now. Met some amazing people. Hopefully i will this time too. There's not much on bio i know. I'd rather keep it personalized and yes ofc i have basic human decency. Every second chick be like 'looking for someone that's 'Kind, Caring, Empathetic, Loving, Honest, Loyal' . Please stop!!!

Since when did basic human decency became a personality trait? Would you rather not want them to be Driven, family-focused, reliable, masculine, career-oriented, ambitious, disciplined, financially responsible, emotionally mature, confident, protective, self-sufficient, hardworking, accountable, resilient? If the answer is yes then stop entertaining guys that don't. It devalues high value men. It's like all the ugly chicks are chased and taken first and the gorgeous one's are bottom of the pile. It will devalue them too. Yes it will, you know it!!! Raise the bar ladies (within reason)- because when you do, there's incentive men to step up, if we get what we want anyway, why would anyone? Not framed well wording wise i know. But, i'd rather put it plainly.

Some will definitely label this as cocky/arrogant for sharing my view of what a high-value man is. This is the world we live in, sadly. People stay silent out of fear of being attacked or, in this case, losing their chances, so they refrain from sharing their true perspectives.

If you think this is cocky/arrogant, then you seriously need to grow up!!! I'd gladly welcome any different perspective with an open mind because that is how you expand the scope of your thinking/view of the world. Being yourself is nice, but, being the better version of yourself is way sexier. Continuous Improvement mindset. That's how you grow on most if not all metrics of life.

Also i'm not asian. I know i look like one. I'm Afghani from dad's side and NZ Euro from mum's. Rare i know. I have yet to meet someone of the same mix. Corporate I.T guy, well AI now. Same same, different.