How to describe myself in a few short words......? A decent man, doing the "indecent " as decently as possible. Good manners cost nothing.

Mostly I am simply looking for some fun with interesting people. A lady or a couple who know how to "party". Pretty simple really. Having found a few couples who wanted an extra man I can say that I really like that scenario but I am open to (nearly) all suggestions.

I am straight but I am not going to freak out if there is a little "crossing of swords" in the course of festivities.

I especially love to give a "good tongue lashing " and I doooo like to watch. If there is an exhibitionist lurking in your soul then we should talk. Offering encouragement and appreciation from the sidelines is such fun.

The deepest sexual connection and excitement...in my opinion anyway,...happens between the ears. The other bits are good too of course...let's not forget them!

I prefer to meet people around my age (give or take 10 years anyway) but if you are younger and think you can keep up feel free to message me 😄.

The fire still rages deep within but the brain is fully engaged these days. I know the fact that I am married will put a lot of folk off and I have to respect that. All I can say really is "walk a mile in my shoes".

Happy to swap photos, talk, whatever it takes really.

I WILL show if I say that I will.  I WILL deliver the goods and I WILL be nice.

All I ask is the same in return.

Oh yes.  I am fully vaxed (against everything you can be 😊). 

I am in Auckland, but travel a lot for business.