The Pixel Master- Now in glorious 32-bit color!

A bearded, inked motoryclist, a geeky-looking IT tech, and a two-time cancer survivor turned Dominant walked into a bar...and then the whole waveform collapsed because someone observed that they were all the same guy!

After life treating me like a bitch and giving me cancer , I decided to take charge and do things the way I enjoy them instead. So far I'd say it's working out pretty well!
And then life decided to give me cancer again. So, took a fair bit of time out to deal with that, but fuck letting that kick me when I'm down. I'll be here for a long time yet.
As someone who's been through it twice, always happy to be a listening ear/vent buddy for any other kinky cancer patients/survivors out there as well, just drop me a line.

You (aka what I'm looking for)

Well, I'm pretty open to a lot of things really, from events to pickup play to longer term partnerships of kinky sorts or otherwise.

I'm always open to playing at events, so if you're interested in some impact or other play, step right up and send me a message. There are a few limitations on this, and I'm not always available, so let me know what you're thinking of in your email and we can talk things through...

As far as potential longer term connections go, I'm generally looking for submissive/bottom identifying women. Not hugely interested in Dommes/Mistresses etc unless it's just to chat- I have no particular interest in submitting to anyone, tried it but I'm unsuited to it and it doesn't do it for me.
Ideally would like to find submissives or bottoms (open to multiple- I'm ENM/Poly) to play and grow with, and continue explore the marvelous world of kink.

However I am also open to those who just want some temporary help to learn or explore the kink side of things, and those who just want to talk to someone about this community of ours and its ways.
Age/Looks/Etc is not a huge issue, and I'm generally pretty open-minded. All approaches will be considered- it's more about your passion and willingness to learn and enjoy things. As long as you're not too far away from Auckland.

The Protagonist

Outside Life

In the outside world I'm a relatively "odd" but relaxed guy: as mentioned above I'm a Geek (I'm a gamer, into anime and books, tech and programming, and IT is my job), a Foodie (I both cook and bake- you may get to try some if you're around me long enough), and a Biker (mostly road-riding motorbikes, and yes I have a few lovely tattoos). I occasionally fish (dragging a kayak out in the cold mornings to do so), garden and enjoy walking/exploring nature with my dog. Very few people from the rest of my life know the kinkier side of me.
I'm also getting back into photography again, and would love to find some beautiful subjects to turn into beautiful kinky art, so if this is you drop me a message.

The BDSM side

The Dominant
As a Dom I'm firm but fair, and always open to feedback. I'm not going to expect you to obey within the first few messages (I've seen a few approaches like that on here and it makes me cringe), I'd rather get to know who you are as a person and see how things go.
I enjoy teasing, but always follow through. I may not take action on things immediately, but I always keep things in the back of my mind- so trust me, you may think you got away with it, but I'll just be biding my time.
Impact is my main forte, but I'm open minded and always looking at new things to try and share. Also a fair bit of experience with breath play, love dabbling in wax play, and enjoy the sexual side of things with the right people.

I am open to potential new solid connections, as well as more simple or temporary interactions, however that depends on the parties involved. If we don't get along in a certain way, we don't get along in that way, and that's ok.

Regarding punishments- you won't be punished for nothing, but if you do misbehave, you will be dealt with in an appropriate manner. Punishment will be suited to the person, as I know some punishments don't work for everyone. I do provide aftercare to my partners, if needed. If you please me well, you will be rewarded, once again in a suitable manner.. possibly with baked goods.

The Daddy
I also have a Daddy side- I take care of those attached to me and keep an eye on their needs. I act as both support and stimulus, poking them to better themselves and enjoy things. I provide comfort where needed, and look out for my charges' health- physical, mental and emotional. I enjoy both giving and receiving affection, and seeing the smiles and warmth I can bring out.

Contact

If I message you, I'm interested in you, and look forward to hopefully hearing back from you. If not, I hope you continue to enjoy your time in the community

If you have any questions or want to talk, you're most welcome to message me, just go right ahead :). I also welcome comments on my writings and photos as long as they're positive or at least constructive (or funny). No one likes an asshat.

== Results from 03/05/2023 ==
100% Dominant
96% Master/Mistress
87% Degrader
85% Sadist
81% Brat tamer
81% Non-monogamist
81% Owner
80% Daddy/Mommy
78% Rigger
78% Voyeur
64% Experimentalist
53% Primal (Hunter)
47% Exhibitionist
18% Vanilla
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Masochist
0% Rope bunny
0% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
0% Submissive
0% Switch
0% Degradee
0% Ageplayer