Connection is key, quality over quantity, having a busy life means …..  the time I carve out for connection, exploration & fun is valued & I like to make it count.  …. quality interactions over quantity is important to me. I'm not judgemental or have a type, confidence come from within as does sexual energy…… & there is nothing more appealing then people comfortable in their own skin & know what they like or need – its 'HOT"

 I'm not a single male spamming profiles playing the numbers game ……… If you have read this far perhaps we might be on the same page?  Patience is a virtue …..  but in my experience its true & pays off.

I'm quietly confident and perceptive – love to be present & pay attention to the subtle cues, but also use words to draw out what others need to having a great time, while feeling respected.

I would describe myself as a sensualist or a ' soft dom' - someone who genuinely enjoys and values using all the senses to heighten sexual play. Most rewarding experiences have been the  creation of a fun, relaxed, and non-judgmental environment where the person feels comfortable enough to truly get out of their head for uninhibited, consensual fun - I might just carry a blindfold around in my pocket : )  …I hope your laughing.

I enjoy meeting new people & looking to expand my connections within the community. There's nothing better than a party, or a weekend adventure or getaway—great tunes, good food, and drink … it just allows some to let go, forget the reality of life & sets the stage for heightened anticipation and fun outcomes for all. ……..

Ultimately, I value meaningful connections. Let's connect over a drink first— Discretion is a must. If you value a thoughtful, fun, and unhurried partner, say hello."

Don't laugh but I have thought of the perfect meet up location, in the Taupo holiday resort, 12 hour hotpool, swim up bar & ability to retire to a room for continued company ? It's on my bucket list to organise a you’ve been you will know. Message me

Anyway, if anything I've shared resonated, feel free to follow or friend request… it would genuinely be nice to connect with like minded people. … lets connect one way or another.