I am in a very happy and stable relationship, and we have recently decided to open our relationship and spice things up a bit. We are playing independently for now.

I am hoping to meet like minded people, either a woman or couple for drink or dinner and possibly more if the spark is there.

I am well travelled, highly educated and can hold a semi intelligent conversation (and I hope you can too). Slim build, in reasonable shape, and I like to dress elegantly when I go out... Non smoker, and I don't do drugs either (well, apart from red wine!). To me, attraction and sexiness are an individual quality and not about height, weight or body type, so I will always want to meet for coffee or a drink first, and take it from there.

Ideally, I would prefer regular meets but open to different things. Based in Wellington but I do travel across the country.

Also... You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. You do NOT have my permission to copy, save, or print my pictures for your own personal use, including, but not limited to saving them on your computer, posting them on any other website, or this one and passing them off as your own. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to all legal remedies.