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Lion_Maiden
7 hours ago
Bi-curious Female, 50
0 km · Christchurch
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About

Kia ora, I'm Lion_Maiden.

August 2026 Profile Update.

I AM CURRENTLY NOT SEEKING ANY SINGLE MEN, AS I HAVE RECENTLY FOUND AN AWESOME PARTNER.... AND I WILL NOT ACCEPT RANDOM FRIEND REQUESTS from anyone I haven't positively connected with messages, or by meeting at a KS related event.

Furthermore, I am now in partnership with a awesomely affectionate & attentive younger man, & we are currently building & cementing our connection by communicating & fulfilling each others intimacy wants & needs. Hence, I do not need any other play partners at this stage.

If my/ our desires require input from others, then I will make direct enquiries with the singles & couples who pique my / our interest.

ABOUT ME.

This description was written for YOUR BENEFIT. It contains key info about my personality, play style, partner preferences, & my target location, (in & around Christchurch).

All profiles of message sender's are viewed & vetted before I decide whether to respond, or not. So increase your chances of a positive response by reading my whole description first before choosing to messaging me, & please use proper sentence structures, & punctuation too. Preference goes to those who fit my location, age & personal characteristics criteria, have a well written informative profile description, & a variety of good quality recent & relevant pics that highlights your personality, & shows your whole physique, not just your penis.

If we continue messaging, then please send a recent good quality face pic, (front on, well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat), to show me who you currently are. I check ID's for a living so do not send me an old pic that misrepresents yourself now.

Be original, imaginative & but remain polite.

Please DO NOT ADDRESS ME with, " Hey Gorgeous/ Beautiful" or terms like Baby, Girl, Lady, Hun, or Darling, etc... Just address me as Lion-Maiden, or a version of this name.

DO NOT ASK the following types of personal questions, such as "What you up to?" "How are things?" "How was your...?"etc. Too me they are private questions about how I have spent my personal time, that are none of anyone else business.

Instead, state what piqued your interest about my profile, or introduce yourself with your stellar personality.

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN

  • Profiles full of Dick pics (Is that all you have?)

  • Old, Out of Date profile/pics, (Keep it current)

  • Profiles lacking info, photos & effort (Boring!!)

  • Under 30 y/o's, (Too big of a generation gap)

  • Cut & paste messages, (So unimaginative)

  • Ingratiating flattery, (Esp. if I don't know you)

  • Being asked mundane questions, (Snore 💤)

  • Those who smoke /vape (Eww Yuck!!! 🤢)

  • "Discrete" Adulterous offers, (NO!! Fuck Off.)

I am NOT a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never discretely engage with an Adulterer. If I wish to interact with an attached man, I will seek the express approval of their Wife/ GF/ Primary partner beforehand, including their expectations for playing with their man.

ABOUT ME

I'm a small youthful 50 y/o single Pakeha woman, (not girl), born, raised & living in Otautahi / Christchurch. My alias relates to being a lioness Leo born on the cusp of the Virgo with her nurturing womanly traits, my affinity with cats, my preference for Rock Music. I am also an unmarried childless "Maiden", (or Spinster), in my late 40's, as sadly my relationships haven't been longer enough for the marriage & kids thing. I am, however, a family oriented Aunty to many. Hence I go by "Lion-Maiden".

My KS journey started in early 2025, & stems from a curiosity to explore my mid-life sexual awakening, & learning, discovering, developing & enjoying who I am, & who I am meant to be.

As a single middle aged woman I am very cautious about who I engage with, partly due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult. Understandably I have some barriers, that I wish to break down & overcome in time, through conversation, & supportive intimacy. Hence I am very particular about who I share my time, body & sexual energy with. All interactions need to be held in a safe, caring, no-pressure environment where conversation comes first. However, I really do enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

I expect all potential play partners to fully communicate their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so we can negotiate, & I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others or their kinks, but based on our connection, & my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.

My prior experience has mainly been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, but includes many different nationalities. So there is lots for me to learn about the kink & swinger scenes, including what I enjoy. Though while I am novice, I am not naive.

When relaxed, I am an intelligent, witty, self-assured, bratish tease. I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious teasing banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to ample sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners with each other's personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner, and I will reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

Most middle aged men & women on KS are married or coupled up & prefer to play with other couples. Hence I wish to find an awesome single man who is keen to build a regular FWB dynamic where we can pair up & explore the lifestyle together. Ideally they would be an experienced, empathetic, fit, fun & flirty gentleman between the ages 30 - 52 y/o, preferably a pleasure dom / switch who will match my energy, help me decide what is good for me, & challenge me to expand my boundaries without breaking my spirit. They will be thoughtful, charismatic, have great manners,

  • Confident, calm, & communicative

  • Authentic, respectful & encouraging

  • Supportive & empathetic

  • Fit, strong & energetic

  • Safe, hygienic, well presented, non-smoker

  • Sexy, flirty, & humorous

  • Intelligent, imaginative & curious

  • Willing to guide & be guided

  • Be spontaneous & willing to go with the flow

I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being a brat, with appropriate restraint & punishment, & a range of dynamics, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. I could consider being a novice unicorn for couples &/ or cuckqueen for wives.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too. They must also be great communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun wholesome caring down to earth, no drama personality. I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as well because we all have lives outside of KS.

I can host once I am comfortable with the play-mate(s) & situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & space with good amenities.

Do you match these specs?! Can you prove it with a message that intrigues me, & is backed up by your profile photos, bio, kinks, etc... I always check before I choose whether to respond, or reject!!

I know that that's a lot of information for you to digest, so it maybe best to copy, paste, print & refer to if you choose to message me.

Thank you for your time & attention.

Ciao.

Lion-Maiden

THE END.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own purposes or to other profiles, or personas.

Seeking

Male
Female
Single Trans Male
Single Trans Female
Couple
Male Couple
Female Couple
Age: 35 - 52
Distance: 100 km

Interests

Adult parties
Anal sex
B & D
Clubs and Parties
Cuckqueaning
Erotic writing
Exhibitionism
Fetishes
Group sex
Holidays
Masturbation
Oral sex
Outdoor sex
Rimming
Role play
Safe Sex
Same Room Swapping
Separate Room Swapping
Soft Swing
Spanking
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Vouches

I had the privilege of sharing time with this stunning lady at the last Bodyshop party, and she is simply unforgettable. Conversation with her was effortless , teasing, sensual, and filled with that spark that keeps you drawn in. Her kisses… intoxicating, slow at first, then deep and passionate, the kind that make the world fall away. Play with her was nothing short of electric; a perfect mix of desire, connection, and pure temptation. She’s elegance wrapped in fire, and every moment left me craving more…😍