
About
Hi, I'm Lion_Maiden. Thanks for checking me out.
My profile clearly describes who I am, my preferences, rules for engagement, etc. Please read it carefully as I make NO APOLOGIES for being SUPER SELECTIVE.
I WILL NOT ANSWER OR ACCEPT
Messages with a Dick profile photo
Brand new or incomplete profiles
People who send cut & paste messages
Ingratiating flattery from people I don't know
Randoms asking benign personal questions
Messages from under 30 y/o guys or couples
People who smoke an average amount 🤢
Old / misrepresentative face & body pics
Discrete requests from Adulterous men
I will NOT be a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist a secretive adulterer. Before I interact with any attached Man I must have a conversation the Wife/GF/ Primary partner to get their express approval, play expectations & rules of engagement to play with their man.
I vet every profile of message senders before I decide to respond, or not. Profiles with quality pics & good descriptive information get my attention.
If we chat I'll expect a good quality recent face pic, to see who I'm messaging with (well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat). Do not misrepresent yourself by sending old pics of your much younger self, as I check ages on ID's for a living.
Be original, imaginative & polite. Don't use "Hey Beautiful" types of flattery, or use over-familiar terms like Babe, Hun or Darling, to ingratiate yourself with me. Thanks Just use my alias.
Don't ask "What you up to?" "How are you?" "How was your...?" type questions unless I know you. They are simple but also private questions about how I spend my personal time. Instead state what piqued your interest in my profile, or introduce yourself using an intriguing aspect of your stellar personality. Please use proper sentences with punctuation, & supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.
ME & MY PREFERENCES.
I'm a youthful petite Bi-curious 49 y/o Pakeha woman (not girl), born & raised in Otautahi/Christchurch. Despite never being married or having kids, I am a family oriented Aunty to many kids.
My KS journey began recently, (Feb 2025), with a curiosity to explore & enjoy my mid-life sexual awakening, & slowly learn, discover & develop who I am meant to be. I've gradually been meeting, connecting, & growing a circle of sexy, supportive kink & swinger friends through organized parties & some more private adventures. I prefer connections from Christchurch & satellite towns, who I can meet, & potentially vibe with in person.
Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I am often introverted, anxious & cautious until I am familiar with a situation. Understandably I have some barriers that I wish to slowly move beyond with understanding & supportive intimacy. Hence I will be very particular about who I share my time, energy & body with. All interactions need to be in a safe, caring, & no-pressure environment where good in-depth conversation comes first. However, I really enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.
I expect all play partners to divulge their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others, but are based on my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.
Once comfortable, I'm intelligent, witty, self-deprecating, & a sassy flirty tease. This more extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service, Admin & Security, including 2 years as a Corrections Officer.
My prior experience has only been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, though includes many international flags. Hence I have lots to learn about the swinging & kink scenes, including what I enjoy. But while I am a novice, I am not totally naive.
Sexually, I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by ample amounts of affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners regarding each others personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner. though with some acts, I will only reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.
I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being restrained, bratty punishment, MFM, FMF, FF, etc.
My ideal play-mate(s) would be between 35 - 55 y/o, fit, fun, flirty, empathetic & somewhat experienced in this lifestyle. They can be a Man, Bi Woman, or partnered Couple who are keen to engage me as "unicorn", to play, pleasure & help build my sassy Little Lioness alter-ego.
As a single woman who has yet to find their ultimate person to live, laugh & love life with, I am also seeking a " je ne sais quoi" - a passionate, sensual, primal spark of reciprocated energy that potentially leads to much more than regular play.
I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun, down to earth, no drama personality. I don't wish to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island. Hence I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as we all have lives beyond Kink & Swing too.
I can host once comfortable with the play situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities.
Disclaimer:
This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own or other profiles, purposes or persona.
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