About
Hi Swingers, I'm Lion Maiden
Thanks for your interest in my profile. Please read & consider my profile info, partner preferences & rules for engagement before messaging me, to verify if we are compatible & would vibe in real life.
DO NOT SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PICS.
NO! I AM NOT INTO ONS, GANG-BANGS or
DISCRETE ADULTEROUS ENCOUNTERS .
DO NOT SEND LAME OPENING MESSAGES
BE IMAGINATIVE & ORIGINAL
Eg. Mention what piqued your interest from my profile, ask a thoughtful question, or introduce an aspect of your stellar personality. Supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.
I'll vet your profile for recent photos, a decent description & relevant personal info before I decide whether or not to respond, so best not disappoint me. If I find your profile & pics interesting, then I will like & follow you, & if we chat for more than a few messages, then I will expect we will send each other some recent face pics. But please don't try bull shite me with old pics of yourself but much younger, as I check IDs & ages for a living.
ME & MY PREFERENCES.
I'm an independent, 48 y/o, fun-sized, kid-free, Pakeha Kiwi Canterbrian.
I am new to the scene, & I have come here to embrace my mid-life sexual awakening; to learn, participate, discover & develop who I am by growing a close circle of sexy supportive swinger/kink friends, & gradually expanding my limits whilst exploring my wants & desires.
I'm seeking to meet & connect with like-minded people, build comfortable fun friendships, & engage in regular sexual play & normal social activities & adventures. I prefer local connections from Christchurch & surrounding areas, people I can easily meet in person & hopefully vibe with to then fulfil each others needs, wants & desires on multiple levels, in and outside the bedroom. My ideal connections would be with fit, flirty, empathetic, caring yet experienced & boundary testing YOUNGER SINGLE MEN, BI-WOMEN, COUPLES, (& potentially a couple of MID-AGED SILVER FOXES), aged between 30 - 55, who would like to play & pleasure a pussy-cat, who can sometimes be a sassy strong-willed Lioness.
I prefer small group interactions in low-key, no-pressure settings, enjoying good company with food, drinks, & cool conversations, rather than large crowds, (unless I am well supported by friends).
My prior sexual experience has been 1 on 1 heterosexual vanilla, (though many international flags). I have lots to learn about the swinger & kink scenes, & what I want to enjoy, but that doesn't mean that I am totally naive.
Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I have some barriers, but I am slowly learning to enjoy healthy sexual intimacy. Hence, I am very particular who I share my time & body with & I expect potential play partners to divulge their intentions, preferences & ideas so I can decide whether I am keen or not. I prefer to start with vanilla activities first before progressing to more explorative experiences. I also learn best by observation to see whether I want to be involved or not. Please respect my right to respond with "No thanks" or "No, not yet ". Also, as I am not a mind-reader, I will often check in with my play partner about their preferences, so that I can learn from each engagement. Hence, I'll expect continuous, open & honest communication during time spent together, including checking that I am happy & comfortable to proceed, or not.
As an introvert I may initially be a bit awkward, reserved & cautious, until I am familiar with people, & the play situation/s. Once comfortable with others I can be a witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating extrovert & a total sassy bratty flirty tease, when the mood is right. This extrovert side of my personality come from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service & Security. It includes "doing time" for two years as a Corrections Officer during the fallout of NZ's most horrendous crime, & the first year of the COVID-19 Pandemic. It's also where I learnt loads about myself, & many fun practical & interpersonal skills too. ๐ฎ๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐โ๏ธ.
I like engaging in emotionally intelligent & inquisitive conversation, as I enjoy learning about people by asking questions about their interests that also intrigue me.
Sexually, I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious foreplay, passionate or sensual sex & awesome affectionate aftercare. I especially enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed & cared for, as well as guided, encouraged &, (at times), punished in a playful manner. I will reciprocate when I am comfortable, & you have gained my trust.
I am also keen to explore several light B&D kinks, role play, MFM, FF, etc.
I am ultimately seeking a " je ne sais quoi" - a spark of reciprocated energy that leads to passionate, sensual encounters with my play-mates.
I focus on Physical, Sexual, Mental & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated & I use appropriate protection(s) for everyone's wellbeing. Potential play partners must also be clean, hygienic, smell great, be drug, smoke & vape free, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun, down to earth, no drama personality. I don't want to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island.
I give, & will expect discretion, as we all have public & private lives outside of KS too.
I can host once comfortable with the situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities. (Sex in a car is a no go!!)
Finally, Don't send me a "Discrete Relationship" request. I am NOT a Substitute for your Wife, Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist anyone to be a Secretive Adulterer. Before deciding whether to interact with an attached Man, I expect to have a conversation with their WIFE/GF/ PRIMARY PARTNER, to get their approval, expectations & rules for engagement. I WILL NOT TAKE PART IN ANY DISCRETE ADULTEROUS PLAY.
Disclaimer:
This Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & are my intellectual, visual & personal property that I have shared via the KS app only. As such NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own or other profiles, purposes or persona.
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