About
Hi Swingers, I'm Lion Maiden
Thanks for your interest in my profile.
Before messaging please read & consider my partner preferences, profile info & rules for engagement to verify if we would vibe in real life, as I am tired of getting benile, time wasting fishing messages from those who aren't what I am seeking.
If messaging PLEASE BE IMAGINATIVE & ORIGINAL. Eg. mention what piqued your interest from my profile, ask a thought provoking question, or tempt me with some aspect of your stellar personality. Supply your alternative details if you on the free service.
Be aware that I vet profiles for current photos, a decent description & relevant personal information before I decide to respond, or not, so you had best not disappoint.
I'm seeking to build connections with calm, caring, fit, confident, emotionally intelligent, experienced, Single Men, Bi-Women, & Couples, aged between 30 - 55, in & around CHRISTCHURCH. People I can easily meet in person & hopefully vibe with on multiple levels.
ABOUT ME:
I'm an introverted, independent 48 y/o, fun-sized, kid-free, Pakeha women living in Chch.
I am emotionally intelligent & inquisitive, but can also be socially awkward, reserved, & initially cautious.
I enjoy engaging & learning about people in small groups. I sometimes will ask lots of questions about things that interest me. Once comfortable with others I am witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating & a total sassy bratty flirty tease. But there will be no covert gameplay from me.
I also have an extrovert professional side from working the frontline in Hospo, Customer Service & Security roles. This includes "doing time" for two years as a Corrections Officer during NZ's most horrendous crime, & the first year of the COVID-19 Pandemic, from which I learnt a whole set of key interpersonal & practical skills.
Sexually, my experience is mostly 1 on 1 vanilla, (but includes many international flags). As such I have lots to learn about the swinger/kink scenes, & to discover what I enjoy. But that doesn't mean that I am totally naive.
I prefer small group interactions in fun, low-key, unpressured settings, enjoying good food, drinks, & cool conversations, rather than large crowds, unless I am well supported by good friends.
Potential play partners need to be clean confident, experienced, down to earth & drama-free as I don't want to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or recreate episodes of Love Island.
I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious foreplay, passionate /primal sensual sex & awesome affectionate aftercare. I especially enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed & cared for, as well as guided, encouraged &, (at times), punished in a playful manner. I will reciprocate when I am comfortable, & you have gained my trust.
RULES & KEY INFO FOR ENGAGEMENT:
1. DO NOT SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PICS, Otherwise I will express my thoughts about you being just another fuck'n dick obsessed prick. I will visit your profile, or ask you directly If I want to see your penis.
2. I've joined to embrace my mid-life sexual awakening & gradually expanding my limits whilst exploring my desires. I wish to learn, participate, discover & develop who I am by growing a close circle of sexy supportive friends. As such, I expect potential play partners to divulge their preferences & ideas so I can decide whether I am keen or not. Please respect my right to respond with "No thanks" or "No, not yet".
3. I'm also bi-curious & which to explore this dynamic with women of a similar elk to me.
4. I am seeking connections with locals from Christchurch & surrounding areas who I can easily meet in person & vibe with on multiple levels, eg. via mental & emotional intelligence, flirty banter, physical chemistry, & common interests, kinks, love languages, plus having availability & quality time to attend & fulfil each others needs, wants & desires.
5. My preference is for building connections with caring, calm, confident, emotionally intelligent, experienced, physically fit, UNATTACHED YOUNG MEN, MID-AGED SILVER FOXES, BI-WOMEN, & COUPLES who would like to play with & pleasure a strong willed Lioness with sassy-cat traits.
6. I AM NOT INTO ONS or GANG-BANGS.
7. Don't send me "Discrete Relationship" requests. I am NOT a Cougar, Milf, Substitute Wife, Girlfriend or Mistress!! I am a Feminist & Fierce Lioness who looks after other women. As such I expect to have a 1 to 1 conversation with your WIFE/GF/PRIMARY PARTNER, to get their approval, their expectations & rules for engagement, before deciding if I'll be involved with an attached Man, as I will never assist anyone to be a Secretive Adulterer.
8. Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I have some barriers, & it has taken me years to learn & enjoy healthy sexual intimacy. Hence, I am very particular who I share my time & body with. I must form a strong connection & trust first. I prefer to start with vanilla activities first before progressing to more explorative experiences. I learn best by observation to see whether I want to be involved or not.
9. I seek a " je ne sais quoi" - a spark of reciprocated energy that leads to passionate, sensual encounters with play-mates who can handle a sassy strong willed woman.
10. If interested, I will like & follow you. And if we chat for more than a few messages, then please supply recent face pics with no obstructions. Please don't try bull shite me with your old pics, as I check IDs & ages for a living.
11. I can host once comfortable with the situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities. Sex in a car is a no go!!
12. I'll give & expect discretion, as we all have public & private lives outside of KS too.
13. I'm not a mind-reader, so I'll expect open & honest continuous communication during any time spent together, including checking that I am happy & comfortable to proceed, or not.
14. I am highly focused on Physical, Sexual, Mental & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. I am regularly tested, fully vaccinated & I expect everyone to use the appropriate protection(s) for everyone's else's wellbeing.
Play partners must be clean, hygienic, smell great, be drug, smoke & drama free, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills & a fun down to earth personality.
Disclaimer:
This Biography, Photos & Personal Information are a true representation of me, by me, & are my intellectual, visual & personal property that I have shared via the KS & FL apps only. As such NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my photos, videos or media, for their own profile, or other profiles, purposes or persona.
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