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Lion_Maiden
4 hours ago
Bi-curious Female, 48
0 km · Christchurch
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About

Hi Swingers, I'm Lion Maiden

Thanks for your interest in my profile.

Before messaging please read & consider my partner preferences, profile info & rules for engagement to verify if we would vibe in real life, as I am tired of getting benile, time wasting fishing messages from those who aren't what I am seeking.

If messaging PLEASE BE IMAGINATIVE & ORIGINAL. Eg. mention what piqued your interest from my profile, ask a thought provoking question, or tempt me with some aspect of your stellar personality. Supply your alternative details if you on the free service.

Be aware that I vet profiles for current photos, a decent description & relevant personal information before I decide to respond, or not, so you had best not disappoint.

I'm seeking to build connections with calm, caring, fit, confident, emotionally intelligent, experienced, Single Men, Bi-Women, & Couples, aged between 30 - 55, in & around CHRISTCHURCH. People I can easily meet in person & hopefully vibe with on multiple levels.

ABOUT ME:

I'm an introverted, independent 48 y/o, fun-sized, kid-free, Pakeha women living in Chch.

I am emotionally intelligent & inquisitive, but can also be socially awkward, reserved, & initially cautious.

I enjoy engaging & learning about people in small groups. I sometimes will ask lots of questions about things that interest me. Once comfortable with others I am witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating & a total sassy bratty flirty tease. But there will be no covert gameplay from me.

I also have an extrovert professional side from working the frontline in Hospo, Customer Service & Security roles. This includes "doing time" for two years as a Corrections Officer during NZ's most horrendous crime, & the first year of the COVID-19 Pandemic, from which I learnt a whole set of key interpersonal & practical skills.

Sexually, my experience is mostly 1 on 1 vanilla, (but includes many international flags). As such I have lots to learn about the swinger/kink scenes, & to discover what I enjoy. But that doesn't mean that I am totally naive.

I prefer small group interactions in fun, low-key, unpressured settings, enjoying good food, drinks, & cool conversations, rather than large crowds, unless I am well supported by good friends.

Potential play partners need to be clean confident, experienced, down to earth & drama-free as I don't want to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or recreate episodes of Love Island.

I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious foreplay, passionate /primal sensual sex & awesome affectionate aftercare. I especially enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed & cared for, as well as guided, encouraged &, (at times), punished in a playful manner. I will reciprocate when I am comfortable, & you have gained my trust.

RULES & KEY INFO FOR ENGAGEMENT:

1. DO NOT SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PICS, Otherwise I will express my thoughts about you being just another fuck'n dick obsessed prick. I will visit your profile, or ask you directly If I want to see your penis.

2. I've joined to embrace my mid-life sexual awakening & gradually expanding my limits whilst exploring my desires. I wish to learn, participate, discover & develop who I am by growing a close circle of sexy supportive friends. As such, I expect potential play partners to divulge their preferences & ideas so I can decide whether I am keen or not. Please respect my right to respond with "No thanks" or "No, not yet".

3. I'm also bi-curious & which to explore this dynamic with women of a similar elk to me.

4. I am seeking connections with locals from Christchurch & surrounding areas who I can easily meet in person & vibe with on multiple levels, eg. via mental & emotional intelligence, flirty banter, physical chemistry, & common interests, kinks, love languages, plus having availability & quality time to attend & fulfil each others needs, wants & desires.

5. My preference is for building connections with caring, calm, confident, emotionally intelligent, experienced, physically fit, UNATTACHED YOUNG MEN, MID-AGED SILVER FOXES, BI-WOMEN, & COUPLES who would like to play with & pleasure a strong willed Lioness with sassy-cat traits.

6. I AM NOT INTO ONS or GANG-BANGS.

7. Don't send me "Discrete Relationship" requests. I am NOT a Cougar, Milf, Substitute Wife, Girlfriend or Mistress!! I am a Feminist & Fierce Lioness who looks after other women. As such I expect to have a 1 to 1 conversation with your WIFE/GF/PRIMARY PARTNER, to get their approval, their expectations & rules for engagement, before deciding if I'll be involved with an attached Man, as I will never assist anyone to be a Secretive Adulterer.

8. Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I have some barriers, & it has taken me years to learn & enjoy healthy sexual intimacy. Hence, I am very particular who I share my time & body with. I must form a strong connection & trust first. I prefer to start with vanilla activities first before progressing to more explorative experiences. I learn best by observation to see whether I want to be involved or not.

9. I seek a " je ne sais quoi" - a spark of reciprocated energy that leads to passionate, sensual encounters with play-mates who can handle a sassy strong willed woman.

10. If interested, I will like & follow you. And if we chat for more than a few messages, then please supply recent face pics with no obstructions. Please don't try bull shite me with your old pics, as I check IDs & ages for a living.

11. I can host once comfortable with the situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities. Sex in a car is a no go!!

12. I'll give & expect discretion, as we all have public & private lives outside of KS too.

13. I'm not a mind-reader, so I'll expect open & honest continuous communication during any time spent together, including checking that I am happy & comfortable to proceed, or not.

14. I am highly focused on Physical, Sexual, Mental & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. I am regularly tested, fully vaccinated & I expect everyone to use the appropriate protection(s) for everyone's else's wellbeing.

Play partners must be clean, hygienic, smell great, be drug, smoke & drama free, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills & a fun down to earth personality.

Disclaimer:

This Biography, Photos & Personal Information are a true representation of me, by me, & are my intellectual, visual & personal property that I have shared via the KS & FL apps only. As such NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my photos, videos or media, for their own profile, or other profiles, purposes or persona.

Seeking

Male
Female
Couple
Age: 25 - 58
Distance: 80 km

Interests

Adult parties
B & D
Cuckqueaning
Erotic writing
Holidays
Oral sex
Rimming
Role play
Safe Sex
Soft Swing
Spanking
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Vouches

Fun, gorgeous, sexy lady who knows how to have a good time as well as being easy to chat with. Here's to more good times to come.