Hi Swingers, I'm Lion Maiden

Thanks for visiting my profile. It has lots of info, including why I joined KS, what I'm seeking, my preferences, & rules for engagement, etc. Please read it to assess how compatible we'd likely be before deciding whether to message me, or not.

Please:

• No unsolicited Dick pic profile photos

• Locals to Chch & surrounds are preferred

• No "Discrete" requests

I will NOT be a Substitute for your Wife, Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist anyone to be a Secretive Adulterer. Before deciding whether to interact with any attached Man, I expect to have a conversation with their WIFE/GF/ PRIMARY PARTNER, to get their express approval, play expectations & rules of engagement.

Be original, imaginative & polite when first messaging me. No "What you up to?" questions. That's personal & private. State what piqued your interest in my profile, or introduce yourself using an intriguing aspect of your stellar personality. Don't call me Babe, Hun, Darling, etc unless we know each other. Please write proper sentences with punctuation, & supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.

I vet every profile of those who message me for recent photos, informative bio content & interests, etc., before I decide to respond, or not. Profiles with quality pics & info get my attention.

If we start chatting I expect to see a good quality recent face pic early on, so I can see who I'm conversing with (well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat). Don't misrepresent yourself by sending an old pics of your much younger self, cos I check ages on ID's for a living.

ME & MY PREFERENCES.

I'm a youthful & petite Bi-curious 49 y/o Pakeha wahine, born & raised in Otautahi/Christchurch. I am family oriented despite never being in a relationship long & serious enough to consider marriage & kids.

My KS journey began recently, (Feb 2025), with curiosity to explore & enjoy my mid-life sexual awakening, & slowly learn, discover & develop who I am meant to be. I've gradually been meeting, connecting, & growing a close circle of sexy, supportive kink & swinger friends, & cautiously exploring & expanding my wants & desires, through organized parties & some more private adventures. I prefer connections from Christchurch & satellite towns, who I can meet, & potentially vibe with in person.

Being predominantly introverted, I can be anxious, overwhelmed & cautious until I am familiar with the situation. This is partly due to some bad sexualized experiences as an adult & child, & mental health reasons. Hence, all interactions need to be safe, caring, low-key & relaxed, no-pressure situations, enjoying chilled conversations first, before any physical play.

Once comfortable, I'm intelligent, witty, self-deprecating, & a sassy flirty tease. This more extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service, Admin & Security, including 2 years as a Frontline Corrections Officer across all 3 Canterbury Prisons. As an Officer I learnt a lot about my strength of character, plus a whole lot of kinky-as skills using proper restraints & equipment. 👮🏽‍♀️🔐⛓️😆

My prior experience has been hetero 1 : 1 vanilla only, though includes many international flags. Hence I have lots to learn about the swinger & kink scenes, including what I enjoy. And while I am new, it doesn't mean that I am totally naive.

However, due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I have some barriers, that I wish to slowly work on, through understanding & supportive intimacy. As such I am very particular about who I share my time, energy & body with. I expect all play partners to divulge their ideas, intentions & preferences for play, so I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others, but based on my energy & readiness to engage in the play fully. However, I do enjoy learning about others experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

Sexually, I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by ample amounts of affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive connections involved in guiding, & being guided by play partners regarding each others personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, guided, encouraged, restrained, punished, pleasured & teased in a playful manner. I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. though with some acts, I will only reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

My ideal play-mate(s) would be between 35 - 55 y/o, fit, fun, flirty, empathetic & somewhat experienced in this lifestyle. They can be a Man, Bi Woman, or partnered Couple who are keen to engage me as "unicorn", to play, pleasure & help build my sassy single Little Lioness alter-ego.

I am ultimately seeking a " je ne sais quoi" - a passionate, sensual, primal spark of reciprocated energy that leads to regular encounters with a primary play-mate.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun, down to earth, no drama personality. I don't wish to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island. Hence I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as we all have lives beyond Kink & Swing too.

I can host once comfortable with the play situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own or other profiles, purposes or persona.