Together 15 years, happy and solid in our relationship. We’re a tall-ish down-to-earth couple (43M & 35F), in that “mum and dad who take care of themselves” kind of shape, fit and healthy, like to exercise, but not ripped😁—confident, curious, and enjoying the journey together. She has had some experience with women and is looking for more, the focus is her.

We enjoy the outdoors, bush walks, biking, boating, fishing, road trips. Both are big readers. We are parents so there has to be flexibility around meeting up! "Us time" can be very hard to come by.

We've had a handful of really great experiences since we joined, but we are still very new to this world. Taking our time, talking openly, and exploring a stag/vixen dynamic with care and excitement. At this stage, we’re seeking thoughtful, respectful ongoing connections. Always a "vibe check" coffee before starting up a group chat—someone who can please her, while getting along with both of us. No one-night stands or pressure; chemistry, comfort, and conversation come first.

We’re mentally and physically engaged people who value privacy, playfulness, and trust. Think slow burn, not sprint. Discretion is a must, sarcasm is good too. So is mutual respect, laughter, banter and genuine connection. We are not into the anonymous thing and are definitely after a FWB vibe, we'd love to see people we genuinely like and get on with on a semi regular/ongoing basis, even if months pass in between.

If it sounds like we may be a good match, let’s start with a conversation and see where it takes us.

Side note: if you send us unsolicited dick pics you'll be blocked, please refrain. Don't bother sending us a message if you can't string a sentence together. :)

If you made the effort to read to the bottom, send a random emoji in your msg if you reach out! xo