Just a regular couple in our forties. Have both been through our "starter marriages", and then found each other after a few years single. Life has been amazing since.

Decided life is too short to just have sex with one another. Don't get us wrong, we have plenty of great sex when it's just us, but we also have a bucket list that isnt gonna tick itself off. We want experiences to be able to reminisce on when we're in the retirement village.

We've recently been to CCK and had an absolute blast. We'll be back for sure, it's just not on our doorstep and we're quite busy people. Just trying to work out whether we can find anyone local we vibe with that we're willing to let our guard down and meet. We have careers and families we care about, so discretion is paramount to us.

We always want to play together. Joined fetlife and realised that not our tribe. Hence, we're "Innocent-ish". Not looking for extreme kinks, just looking for heaps of fun with good people who we trust.

Erin is working out that she is slightly submissive. She likes women and men. David is happy to oblige and leave marks on her ass or restrain her when the time is right.

Not into degradation, guys messaging us dick pics, or anyone asking on the second message for face pics, or asking us to jump to other apps. Prefer to hear from couples or females for the most part. Single guys - please don't be too punishing with your messages.

Looking forward to chatting to some cool people and maybe meeting. Our lives are busy, so if we dont reply straight away, we'll get there (for couples and females at least). We don't really have a type - just people we click with, so lets find out. We both check the inbox.

Erin and David x