Update (23 Oct 23'): We're receiving a lot of messages and we're grateful for all the attention from lovely people. We just want to let you know that we are, in principle, interested in connecting with a lot of you, but we simply haven't been able to get back to you everyone in a timely manner. On top of this, our lives as public servants is calling on a lot of our time during this period of change in the lead up and after the election. So we're very busy and simply can't meet, connect and play with as many of you as we'd otherwise like to. xx

Kia ora, welcome to our cozy adult play burrow. 

On this profile we are ‘Hase’ (hare/him) and ‘Häschen’ (sweetheart/her) - these are our German terms of endearment for each other (when we say goodnight). 

Most of our photos are hidden for privacy reasons and we’re happy to share more when we chat and click.

About us

We’re young-ish professionals (without children) who are ethically nonmonogamous (more nonmonogamish than fully open), sex and slut positive, into a variety of kink (though don’t require it with others), adventurous and looking to connect with people who can be sex-positive friends with benefits and become part of our community. 

We're active and take care of ourselves. We’re not into drugs or excessive alcohol.

With play partners we always look for (and we offer) three things:

1. good judgment

2. being in working order (as a person)

3. GGG (good, giving, game) 

We apply Dan Savage’s ‘campsite rule’ with those less experienced than ourselves. This means we look to leave others in a better place than they were before. We also have a nuanced relationship to privacy and transparency (see Esther Perel), meaning that relationships are not a deposition and people have a right to some privacy in their connection with others. We don’t police connection and this is distinct from secrecy and lying.

Her

She is a mixed-race, imaginative and charming young lady who is stepping into a fuller understanding of her sexual identity and preferences, having had little opportunity to explore this space in earlier years.

She is petite and feminine, glamorous on special occasions but elegant always, wholesome and kind, a smart cookie/total nerd, loves witty repartee, and has been described as delivering “the most intelligent flirting I’ve ever experienced in my life”.

She is sapiosexual and a bit of a chameleon in terms of being able to occupy different roles and identities - she loves fashion, roleplay and cosplay. She’s into the psychological aspects of kink, power play and the taboo. She is submissive and obedient (out of choice and love), and enjoys being restrained/tied up and being made to submit to others’ desires (consensually agreed to beforehand).

She identifies as bisexual (usually more into girls than guys) and is finding a lot of excitement in being a voyeur, especially of her lover. She likes to turn on her man in creative ways, eroticising other cute girls with him and watching him give them pleasure and take pleasure in them - and loves to join in when she gets too hot and bothered from watching.

Him

He is European, clean, groomed, safe, and well endowed for those who care. He is sapiosexual and legitimately heteroflexible (can have genuine fun with guys though doesn’t seek it out). He can be dominant or submissive, depending on the person/people we’re spending time with. He’s got a rich fantasy life, a lewd mind and likes dirty talk, roleplay and making up hot stories and scenes. He also likes open sexual spaces: threesomes, watching and being watched, and playfully taking advantage of his partner. Last but not least, he is no doubt very voyeuristic and one of his greatest pleasures in life is watching his cute girlfriend connect with others. He takes care of the people he plays with.

What we’re looking for

We take great pleasure in share sexual and erotic spaces, and playfully sharing ourselves with others. We only play together, at the moment. We both enjoy watching each other have fun, and so looking for other couples or select individuals who we connect with and, by chance (not a requirement), may also be enthusiastic about joining our kinks, or participate in a kink scene with a special flavour. 

We’re open to group play in the right setting, ambience and with lovely people. We’ve been to private parties and we are not shy to play.

We’re very attracted to kind people and good conversationalists (we appreciate both IQ and EQ) that are considered and playful. We value psychological literacy and we’re highly sapiosexual. For us sex is so much more satisfying with people we gel with. We respect boundaries and value safety and sincere care for one another when play gets more intense, especially if and when we go deeper into power play, transgression and the taboo.

Bi-people, gay men and lesbians, submissives or classy dominants (any gender), please get in touch!

Deal breakers

We don’t tolerate slandering partners behind their backs or anyone who neglects their partners during or between play.

We don’t play with people in altered states due to the influence of drugs or (too much) alcohol, which disallows them to be present, consent or care for others.

Unsafe sex.

Disrespect of boundaries.

Excessively rough play without warming up to it, knowing the other is (or is not) ready and available for this and consent (we’ve been at parties where men have been ‘too’ enthusiastic and careless, leading to the ‘non-sexy’ type of pain!).

**We're both vaccinated, keep up to date with our boosters, and only interested in connecting with others who are as well.

***We do not give any permission to copy or distribute our images.