Single account on here , but can play as couple with female friend.

I know exactly what i want. Though it varies from slow & sensual to let's get kinky and find our limits. 

I am happy, intelligent, uninhibited & healthy. The 4 go together well I find. Am a 40 something man, live in Kohimarama, work in the city. 

Some days I think I'm quite attractive. Other days I don't know why anyone would give a second look. 

I am fit and enjoy good food, good drink and good music. Want to revel in someone's body and someone's presence. I am a sensual and passionate man.

I have my partners OK to live a sexual life outside our relationship. Details on request.
My Ideal Person I know exactly what I want. 
Well, that is to say, I know the fundamental requirements. 
What goes in the spaces in between, will be the good stuff, whatever the precise flavour.

*I want a lover, or lovers * 

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR, 
in one sentence, is approximately:
A mentally and physically attractive woman or couple, between 35 and 55, who wants to meet regularly and share a pleasurable hour or 6.

I will give total respect and complete honesty between ourselves. 

Ask me anything physical, sexual or mental. 
(
You will not shock or offend me, and I will give an honest reply.
)

a look in the eyes,
a meeting of minds,
un-charted sex. 

MAKE LOVE NOT PORN