Bio Update October 2026: NO FACE PIC, NO CHAT!

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After 8 months on KS, this bio needed changing based on what I’ve learnt and my experiences. My views have changed and I have changed as a person in that time.

I talk about these things often: intention, effort, availability, authenticity, communication, consistency. I shouldnt have to but I do because it seems a hard ask of some people. These things matter and become the foundation for connection and friendship. These two things are mutually exclusive to me. You dont get one without the other and you don't get either without the rest. These things create the best encounters. When you come together after gaps in time, you get to feel your way over a familiar body, trace the lines you missed, remember how they kiss and respond to your touch, rediscover the pleasures and heights you go to together. If the idea of this doesnt stir something in you then for the love of god, please do not message me. I know I am not for everyone but the ones who align with this have found me ❤️

I value caring, respectful, gentle, sensual, sexual encounters. Hard and fast, I am not for you. Take your time. Learn my body and how it responds to you and I will do the same for you. I get such gratification from pleasuring you. Having you enjoy my touch is an intoxicating feeling. This doesnt work unless we are both all in 💜

I seek butterflies when you text, when your hand lands on the small of my back when we kiss, when you lean in to cuddle me like you won't let go. I seek flirty exchanges that leave little to the imagination. I seek the anticipation of teasing each other before planning to meet. I seek the nervous thrill of walking into a bar to meet you. I seek eye contact, your finger tracing my bare knee while we talk, your attention. I want to feel desired and I want to desire you. I seek character and value emotional and mental intelligence. Stimulate my mind and senses and the rest will naturally follow. I seek kindness, someone who can listen and someone who knows their way around the female body. I seek softness and gentleness. I’m attracted to your character and the way you make people feel in your presence 🦋

I do not seek a relationship. I do not seek pushy, cocky, arrogant men who cannot exercise patience while building a connection. My interest in you will disappear as quickly as it appeared if you insist on swapping numbers immediately and ask when we can meet in the first chat. I do not seek boys who masquerade as men. I do not seek men who cannot share or who bring their childish mind games to an adult playground. You are walking red flags and its obvious. My bullshit radar is strong and I have no issue removing your access to me if the vibe is off. While I am at it, don't eye up other women in front of me. Its a dick move in any lifestyle unless I've pointed her out and we can perve together. Thats an elite move. I do not seek mediocre nor bare minimum effort. Your actions must match your words and you wont get anywhere with me without smart, well constructed thoughtful message exchanges ❌

I love kindness, sensual kisses, boobs, massages, chasing sunsets, women in lingerie, ice cream, beach walks, star gazing, ginger beer, chocolate dipped strawberries, a calm still evening and laughing till my belly hurts 🌸

I don’t love 69s, arrogance, ignorance, people who don’t indicate, g-strings, bad grammar, liars, disrespect, people who can’t own a mistake and anyone judgmental 🙄

Free of charge: sarcasm cos laughter is life and I don’t take myself too seriously, comedic genius because I was born hilarious, modesty and humility obviously, a cuddle buddy because who doesn’t love to be wrapped up in soft curves, deep chats because real beauty comes from within and a built in dinner date who will get food envy and try to steal from your plate 🩷

About me: I am a curvy brunette with green eyes. I am classy but cheeky, refined but sexy, humble but curious and loving but playful. I am an eternal optimist and will always see the cup half full. I live a quiet blessed life with no desire to change that for now. You are however welcome to interrupt my peace with flirty banter and sexy texts. I’m a sucker for being told what to do and calling me a “good girl” while I oblige is my kryptonite. If you have magic fingers that work at an elite level for women’s pleasure then where have you been all my life! You must know the female body well to claim me. Run of the mill touching won’t get you far with me. I love being touched but great kissing is what will make me putty in your hands. In the last few years, I have experienced a sexual awakening of sorts. I have fantasies I would like to live out but bear with me while I work on feeling safe enough to share them. I am a bit self conscious of my stripey curvy body even though I am intensely proud it housed two humans. Behind the pics, I have a jiggly mum tum which makes a great pillow and resting spot. I am always a work in progress and consider myself a daily growth project. I am a chatterbox and will communicate well. I am happy having platonic chats and sexual chats if the vibe is right. I will be transparent if the vibe is or isn’t there. I am more likely to respond if you send a face pic. I am a visual creature so I like to know who I am talking to. I will happily reciprocate. I am single and do not have the need for discretion like some others. I don’t have a “type”. I don't believe in them. I care how you make me feel when I am with you. If you have a type and typically I don't match that, please DO NOT reach out. I am not interested in connecting with someone who later decides curvy woman are not their vibe. Your character will impress me way more than your ability to lift at the gym. The hottest thing you can do to hook me is make me laugh. I’ve always been a sucker for tattoos and facial hair but they aren’t a must. If you can keep good banter and make me smile at my phone while I read your messages then you have unlocked something very few get to! Enjoy the ride that follows 🦄

Bring your flirty A game and top tier banter to the table. This is a non negotiable. I am fed up with low effort. You want this queen, earn a chair. If not, move along and make way for those who will. I am sassy, flirty and will tease in the best way possible when the vibe is right. I make no apologies for my high standards and expectations. A little insight for you..... a sure fire way to give me the ick is to call me a bad girl or naughty girl. See how quick you can dry a girl up. I have a praise kink not a degrade woman kink 🙌🏼

I can’t wait for some great chat and hopefully that leads to some amazing experiences beyond my wildest dreams 💛

Non smokers and non vapers only. If you require alcohol to enjoy an encounter then please don’t contact me. As a non drinker, alcohol and play don’t mix well in my experience. I am not judging your choices so please respect my choice to avoid these vices. I keep a clear head and prefer those I play with to align with that. No drama required over it. Anyone up to 40, please don’t message. I won’t be bending my age preferences. I have them for a reason. In my experience, people closer to my age have the flexibility and desire to make an effort to see me. I don’t have time for anyone who says their keen then makes excuses to not meet or no shows. We are all busy but the mature ones make time and I will in return ‼️