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Update:: First and foremost, I bloody love this space. I have already made a couple connections so will likely not respond to anyone else for now. I am not in the business of over extending myself when I already have a busy life. In saying that some have fizzled out over time on their own through misalignment so try your luck. If for some reason I do reply, I value character, communication, respect and transparency above all else. This is non negotiable. FWB doesn’t work for me without these things. It’s what builds intimacy and sexual connection for ongoing fun for me. Don’t message me if your MO is to meet, fuck then ghost me. I’m not interested in that behaviour. I’d go to Tinder if I wanted that crap. Some of you are more transparent in this aspect that you realise. Man up, grow up and show a little respect if you are gonna use the term MAN. If that triggers you then I am probably not for you and you can continue on your merry way. Getting butt hurt because I don’t reply gets you blocked. I won’t reply to your templated intro from a wink. Use a little thought and originality for a first impression. For the love of god, please STOP sending me album invites when you can’t even introduce yourself in a message first. Your dick pic means nothing to me without the context of who you are. They just get declined. If you want one off nights, I’m not your girl. If you are married and cheating, do NOT message me AT ALL. I am new here and navigating this the best way I know how so pushy men and women will be blocked. As will those who are unable to accept a slow pace allowing for connection to build. If you are on a free account and can’t message then that’s on you to sort if you wanna chat to me. It’s not on me to adjust my boundaries to make life easier for you. Move along to someone who matches your energy. Thanks for your time and good luck on your journey here xx

Recently single and keen to test the waters of this new world. Super curious and intrigued. Just letting my intuition lead me for now. Before you message me, read this bio and be sure something resonates with you. I am learning quickly how many are after instant gratification. If that works for you then go for gold but I am different. I won’t be for everyone but I will be right for the ones who see this experience the same way I do. Sensually and pleasurable for all. Hard and fast, I’m not your girl. My body won’t respond unless it’s gentle and caring. Take your time and enjoy unlocking the treasure box if you think you are worthy.

I am an eternal optimist and will always see the cup half full. I live a very blessed life and am not keen to date right now. You are however welcome to interrupt my peace with flirty banter and sexy texts. I’m a sucker for being told what to do and calling me a “good girl” while I oblige is my kryptonite. I love being touched but great kissing is what will make me putty in your hands. I love chasing sunsets, ice cream, beach walks, star gazing, a calm still evening and laughing till my belly hurts.

I had a very reserved sex life while married for 20 years but since that ended I have embraced the sexual awakening that followed. I have fantasies I would like to live out but bear with me while I work on feeling safe enough to share them. I am a bit self conscious of my stripey curvy body even though I am intensely proud it housed two humans. I am always a work in progress and consider myself a daily growth project.

I don’t have a “type”. Your character will impress me way more than your ability to lift at the gym. The hottest thing you can do to hook me is make me laugh. I’ve always been a sucker for tattoos and facial hair but they aren’t a must. If you can keep good banter and make me smile at my phone while I read your messages then you have unlocked something very few get to! Enjoy the ride that follows.

I am a chatterbox and will communicate well. I will be transparent if the vibe is or isn’t there. I am more likely to respond if you send a face pic. I am a visual creature so I like to know who I am talking to.

I can’t wait for some great chat and hopefully that leads to some amazing experiences beyond my wildest dreams ❤️