I am the man of an epic as fuck Auckland Couple. Poly. Happily partnered. Open to dating.

I’m not here to collect notches or run a script. I want chemistry I can feel in the room, conversation first, then play if it clicks. I like being a Dom: rope, pace, that mix of fun and intensity. I’m also the person who’ll make you a proper drink and not treat this like a transaction.

My wife and I have a solid foundation and we date separately. Sometimes we play together when the vibe is right. I’m not hunting a unicorn to “complete” us.

Looking for:

•a confident woman who likes a man who can lead

•or a couple who wants the guy in the room, not just wallpaper

First meet is a drink. Public. No pressure. If we laugh and the energy is there, we talk about what happens next.

Message me with something real. “Hey” gets the same energy back.