I would say my fantasy is to be a bit of a brat and give my partner a reason to punish me sexually

Basically, he takes me to the room, pushes me down on the bed, pulls my clothes off and fucks me hard, as well as choking me and restraining me if he so desires

I love it when he fucks my mouth and makes me gag 😈

We are similar to a few people who commented on here. In that we find it essential to meet a couple socially first

It is super important to make sure we are all on the same page too. As we have found at least a few couples who seem to just want to meet and fuck and that's not what we are looking for. So those couples tend to just ghost you

When you do meet a couple you want to play with, same room fun is the best start I feel. If you are a couple like us for example. As I was worried I wouldn't be able to handle seeing my partner having sex with another women and wasn't sure how he would react to seeing another man have sex with me

My partner was great with making sure I was all good. He kept physical contact with me as much as he could and had eye contact with me as much as he could. I found it quite hot watching him fuck another women, so I'm glad I felt ok with that. Though I think the chics partner didn't like that I kept looking at my partner. As it seemed like he just wanted me to himself

They were clearly mostly after just new people to fuck, so they have since ghosted us. Which is fine. Some people just don't seem to bother politely saying, that was fun, but yeah nah

We live in Auckland, so we were lucky enough to visit CCK, which is a good introduction to this world

Also, we talk to couples on here and let them know we are looking for couples we can hang out with and it's not all about the sex. Though the sex is nice

We have noticed some couples can be quite intense and seem to only want one time hookups, which isn't what we are looking for

I guess the best advice is make sure your profile explains what exactly you are looking for and make sure any couple you may potentially meet is on the same page

Meeting socially first is a must for us. So we can make sure we all vibe and also we need to have attraction too, but personality is essential

We did find visiting CCK was quite a good introductory experience for us

Sure I was pretty shy about walking around in my lingerie. But I was super glad CCK supplies robes for visitors to wear

I did have the luck of actually talking to another couple whose first time it was there also and that was quite comforting