We have a long term secure relationship, and have played on and off over the years. We are drama free, easy going and fun to be around. We both prefer to play with couples where everyone is involved rather than pairing off. We both love seeing eachother with others and the vibe we get from other people enjoying themselves too. We do really enjoy a bit of dirty talk and the sounds of everyone having a pleasurable time. Hubby is straight but does like having another guy there to team up with and have fun with the girls.