Confident, dominant, discreet, hung and open-minded.

What im looking for

NSA fun, casual dynamics, or an ongoing play partner if the chemistry does that thing where it just clicks. I’m not here to collect connections. I’m here for genuinely great experiences. The kind you remember for the right reasons.

One thing that’s non-negotiable regardless of vibe: good communication and great foreplay. Everything else is a conversation.

If we don’t click, I’ll tell you honestly, no ghost, no fade. All I ask is the same. Life’s too short and the scene’s too small for anything less.

The practical stuff (because adults appreciate this)

Clean, hygienic, tested every three months most recently Feb 2026. Groom regularly. I have some, I shave it, I grow it back, we don’t talk about the in-between stage. If you have a preference, tell me and I’ll sort it out, genuinely no ego about it.

Two years in the swinging and kink scene and I’ve loved almost every moment of it. The people, the parties, the couples, the creativity. It turns out adults who communicate openly and pursue pleasure intentionally are some of the most interesting humans alive. Who knew.

About me

Middle Eastern, born and raised in Auckland Nz. Travel often to Wellington so happy to connect thwre too. I enjoy taking the lead, playful, sensual, or rough depending on the vibe.

By day I manage people and regs in finance. By night I manage entirely different dynamics, and I’d argue I’m better at the second one.

Into Photography, climbing, arts, and anything that might get my heart rate up. Happy to talk more about it.

Happy Hunting!!