Much like the drink I'm named after...I'm most certainly, and unashamedly, an acquired taste...and therefore, NOT for everyone. If my personality and sexuality had a flavour profile it would most certainly be intense, intentional and the perfect juxtaposition between sweet and spicy.

I have the intellect and life experience of someone my age however my inner child is fiercely dominant. I'm typically, primarily drawn to older male partners because of this. I'm attracted to assertive, strong, chivalrous male energy...and like being taken care of.

Before 90% of you get overly excited and send me a message...DON'T...and I say that respectfully...I have zero interest in two dimensional, cheap, meaningless physical interactions...no judgement, but it's not my style.

What I am interested in is making genuine, long term connections with people I either relate to, can learn from or preferably both.

I'm a non traditionalist...with traditional values.

Well mannered communication is imperative...cheap, flirtatious comments will be ignored and blocked.

An absolute extrovert...bubbly to the point of being effervescent...I'm not shy about asking for or going after what I want in life.

I intend to use this platform to attract like minded people who are interested in connecting beyond just physically.

I understand that won't appeal to everyone on here...and that's the entire point.

I'm a trained massage therapist who deeply values human connection and physical touch.

Connection...emotion...empathy...energy exchange...are all essential components of my sexuality and self expression.

I'm creative, animated, theatrical...and love an excuse to dress up...themed costume parties are my kryptonite!!!

I'm interested in hosting small get togethers...that have a social aspect (dinner, drinks, intellectual conversation etc)...that will in the fullness of time include more physical touch (cuddling, group massage, group masterbation, sexy interactive games etc) and inevitably, more than likely, lead to deeper physical intimacy.

I'm passionate about all things health and wellness related. Relaxation is a huge part of my life...with a significant amount of time focused on massage, contrast therapy, sensory deprivation/float therapy, surrounding myself with interesting people/experiences and expanding my self awareness.

I don't plan on allocating much time to monitoring this inbox...however will check it periodically.

Should relationship status be of interest...I'm in a very committed relationship, with a partner I absolutely adore. He is retired and travels NZ full-time. I however reside permanently on the North Shore. Hence my interest in expanding my social and sexual circle.

I expect those of you that resonate with what I've said will inevitably send me a message...for everyone else, I wish you well on your erotic exploratory endeavours.

Much love xoxo Tamara 💋