New and extremely shy to the scene, testing the waters to see whats out there and how it all works. I come from a very conservative/religious controlling back ground and have spent most of my life in a marriage that was rather vanilla and controlling. However, I do not judge others on their lifestyle, sexual or gender choices. In fact I celebrate it! Go you guys! Your braver than me and i take my hat off to that. Unless it involves vulnerable people, children or animals then i dont want to know ya.

Im now in a poly relationship, but curious about kink and my bi side. He is wonderfully supportive of me exploring my kinks. Something I havent done too much of as yet and I explore boundries and what I like or want to try. Ive spent a lot of time on nzd but omg..... really??? Wtf is wrong with some people. I mean I haven't ever really dated before.... ever but there has to be more to it than a dick pics and an 'up to' comment....

Im an artist and a hippy girl at heart, I am cautious of meet ups and vet people a lot. I want to feel desired, wanted, special.... not just out for a quick fuck, thanks but no thanks. I mean I dont judge those who do, but its not for me. Ive spent a lot of time looking after everyone else in my life, now its my turn.

So feel free to flick me a message, but please dont be offended if I do not reply, I only have the free version, so I cannot go into it all too much. Ill just be on here lurking for a while, Ill take my time to paddle around the edges and gain my bearings.