STRICTLY PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE: Anyone under 30 or anyone over 60.

Respectful but shy. Busy with work and home. I have got a great life and career. Here to meet someone genuine and have some fun. That's it.

Interested in 1:1 connection. I would prefer something casual but regular and cannot guarantee to meet every weekend. Sometimes it might be weekly, fortnightly or could even a few months between meetings depending on work and life. If you need someone available very frequently, we probably won’t be a match.

Chat first, break the ice before meeting. Not a type of person who just sleeps with anyone and definitely not handing out my number or photos cause I take privacy very seriously.

Based in Pukekohe and work around Point Chevalier, so meeting somewhere in between is handy for me. Can’t host at home, but if we genuinely click, happy to organise our meet in a motel or Airbnb.

Big on hygiene, respect, discretion and good manners. I am clean, take pride in myself, smell good, good teeth, have a good job, a good personality. 😏

Those rude, pushy, arrogant, dramatic, unhygienic and time wasters, please keep scrolling. I believe give respect, take respect. Confidence is sexy not arrogance.

Just a reminder, this is a swingers/adult dating space, not Tinder. Know the difference before messaging for genuine adult connections and fun without unnecessary drama or expectations.

My ideal scenario: Friday evening having dinner together, good conversation,laughs, some chemistry, relaxed pleasurable fun and then back to normal life as usual. Nothing complicated. Just two adults enjoying each others company when the timing is right.

Happy to wait for the right person. I love Slow cooked rather rushing for fast food. 😉

If you are genuine, respectful, discreet, clean, patient and interested in a proper 1:1 connection, please get in touch.

I have a best friend (my play partner) but she relocated back to south.