Hi all and welcome to my bio.

I am not really a swinger because my husband and I are not looking to swap partners or engage in group sex, and I am not looking for lots and lots of play partners.

Hubby and I have been ethically non-monogomous for over a year now, I play (looking for a bit of spice), he does not. Don't ask if he watches or wants to join or wants to know, because the answer is no. He is my everything and I expect you to be respectful.

In the year and a half that we've been ENM I have had very few dates, still searching for the perfect FWB, I haven't found him yet, instead I found the big H (herpes - yeah it sucks).

There is never a shortage of messages but there is a massive shortage of people I vibe well with. Unless your DM is phenomonal, you are unlikely to capture my attention with a DM. You are far more likley to capture my attention via engagement on what I post, and yes I am planning to post regularly.

I would love to one day find one (maybe two) long term FWB's with a MASSIVE emphasis on the friends portion of FWB, because sorry but due to life being life the benefits won't be super often. I like sexy chat but if sexy chat is the ONLY chat you seem capable of then I am likely to get bored very quickly.

Whilst I accept that everyone has needs and different desires, if you are being unfaithful then I am not interested in meeting you. Whilst the risk of herpes transmission is low when there is no outbreak, it is also never zero (even with protection), you may be willing to take the risk but that is really unfair on your partner.

If you really really really must message me, then please pop the strawberry emoji into your message to show that you have read and acknowledge the big H, will save me having to awkwardly bring it up 😊