Newly single trying my luck to find someone super specific 🤞

I'm trying relationship anarchy, creating my new bubble this year. I'd love to find a play partner/casual lover who I can actually connect with as a human and who appreciates the connection ✨

I'm looking for someone who....

・gets tested regularly/takes sexual health seriously

・communicates well

・can have spontaneous playdates

・can host and doesn't have flatmates

・is local (Wellington based)

・is thick (chest and arms)

・is not short

・is sensual

・is kinky but not specifically Dom, or open to new ideas (I'm in the kink community and often gets new exciting ideas 💡🤣)

I'm Asian, not tall at all 😅

I like guys with darker skin 🤎

I've been on KS before, not really a newbie so... I know single females get overwhelming attention.... I cannot respond to all the messages🙏, I will select who to reply! Please don't send me any dick pics (but really appreciate if you share your face pics!!), but send me a respectful (or creative) message instead 😊 I understand that single males experience getting the messages ignored and probably don't want to put much effort in sending them but.... the messages do show your personality! Please put a little more effort in

I already have a few other connections, I'm only looking to add one beautiful penis 🤣 oops I mean a beautiful-hearted person 💖!!

Not interested in ONS I need to build a real connection to have wonderful sex

Not looking for any couples at this stage, luckily I already have that dynamic 💖

Yes to Females also! Who's looking for one on one connection ✨ but in that scenario I don't want the male partner in the room

* I have some friends in the swinger/kink community so you might've already known me, it's May 😆👋