Ok, here we go! I'm a kiwi boy from the southern Auckland/northern Waikato region. Or at least I was. Now, due to the nature of my work, I spend most of my time exploring the globe, only retuning to Aotearoa about once a month for some respite. Therefore, I'm actually not looking for meetups, relationships etc right now. My wife I and come from a well established background of swinging and ENM and we miss the New Zealand community. A good friend recommended I sign back up for KS to keep in touch with what's going on, so here I am!

In terms of the vanilla, I am a devout sapiosexual, so we'll get along famously if you can hold a conversation about more than the weather. The only thing I love more than people who agree with me are people who disagree with me. There are many topics and items of human endeavour that I find fascinating - music, history, politics, economics and human relationships to name just a few. I also enjoy working out and keeping fit in whatever free time I have.

With respect to the not-so-vanilla: I believe that discretion is indeed the better part of valour. If we chat and hit it off then I'll be happy to share, but I'm not a great advocate for putting it all out there for the world to see 🤣 To each their own. All of the big ticket items are listed in the "interests" section anyway. Do me a favour, if you get this far and decide you still want to message me, I'd be ever so grateful if you could mention penguins in the message so I know you've been bothered to invest you time!