46yo, Married/ENM, and a busy Wellington professional. I’m grounded, fit, and I actually know how to use my words. I value hygiene, discretion, and a good sense of humor above all else. I’m a "good bugger" who knows how to be a gentleman in public and a lot more adventurous behind closed doors.

I’m primarily interested in connecting with open-minded couples or singles. I’m switchy and love the dynamic of an MMF encounter where everyone’s pleasure is a priority. I’m a fan of the slow-burn—let's start with a drink at a quiet bar and see if the chemistry is there.