IKia ora! I’m Simon, a genuinely curious and enthusiastic explorer in both life and connection. Based in ChristchurchI value kindness, honesty, and respectful communication above all else.

A bit about me:

I’ve dipped my toes into light BDSM and found it adds a thrilling, playful edge to intimacy—safely and consensually, with clear boundaries.

I’m increasingly curious about swinging as a way to meet like-minded people who celebrate connection, consent, and mutual respect.

I’m here to meet open-minded adults who value considerate conversation, discretion, and shared fun.

What I’m looking for:

Mutual respect, clear communication, and enthusiastic consent.

A relaxed, welcoming vibe with people who enjoy getting to know each other before anything else.

A few great connections with couples or singles who are aligned on boundaries, safety, and fun.

What I offer:

A positive, considerate, and communicative partner who believes in consent and safety.

An open-minded attitude, great sense of humor, and a willingness to explore new experiences at a comfortable pace.

A discreet, respectful approach to sharing moments and memories.

If you’re intrigued, I’d love to hear what you’re into, what you’re hoping to explore, and any ground rules you’d like to set. Happy to share a photo if we’re off to a respectful start—say hello with a brief intro, what you’re into, and your vibe.

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Mahalo for taking the time to read. Looking forward to good conversations and respectful connections.