Sounds fun, I will think about it.
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Astrid_
11 hours ago
Straight Female, 65
0 km · Auckland
Forum
Warming the Bed
We think that this scene, lifestyle, marriage choice is quite misunderstood by a lot of people.
For those who live this scene it is about a different way of interacting with your long term partner, generally married but not always.
Some couples come from the swing scene some ,like us ,from the fetish scene.
It's a basic biological fact that as men get older there sexual prowess deminishes where as for women it can stay on a reasonable peak well into there old age.
Also as you spend many years together hopefully that loving bond becomes deeper and more intense.
However there are only so many ways you can have sexual games and after probably 10 years the straight sex life can start to become a little staid.
So I think for us and couples like us we eventually decide to run our marriage in a different way that takes these points into consideration.
A lot of people, particularly men, cannot fathom how these marriages can function.
The truth Is for those who are wiread in this way they are very successful.
Cuckold couples seldom end up in the divorse courts, we don't end up hating each other fighting over the kids or basically getting bored to death with one another.
Now don't get me wrong, this scene does not mend broken marriages, in fact if your marriage has cracks in it stay well clear of this scene.
We have now rejigged our marriage so that this is a very intrinsically important part of the dynamic.
Personally we would like to see more couples talking to each other about this marriage choice, but it does seem to be very much the guilty little secret.
Perhaps this forum could give more room for our scene.
Regards
A&j
Warming the Bed
Hi guys
We are a couple who moved to this lovely country about two years ago from the UK.
Originally from the Fetish scene we moved slowly into the Cuckold scene.
We have found that it's not as well known here in NZ as in the UK, and some guys seem to be rather afraid to approach us because they think something drastic is going to happen to them, lol.
Anyway if there are any nice good looking intelligent guys out there who don't mind dealing with a couple/or me if that's more your thing then please say hi.
Kind regards to you all.
A
xx
PS Just read the Hotwife definition in the "Guide to swinging" which on the whole is correct.
However the sub group of Cuckolding probably needs a bit more as it is way more complex than the description currently being given.
And for us at least it's incorrect.
