About Us:

Hi there! We’re a professional European couple in our 40-50’s, living in NZ and recently exploring the lifestyle. While we’re new to the scene, we’re open-minded, respectful, and genuinely excited to connect with like-minded couples for good conversation, a few laughs, and seeing where things might go.

We’re currently into soft swing only — think touch, tease, and play with boundaries — and we believe in clear communication, mutual respect, and zero pressure on either side. For us, chemistry and connection come first, and we’re very happy to start with drinks, dinner, or a chill social catch-up to see if there’s a vibe.

We have teen kids, so our time together is precious — and we like to spend it with people who are easygoing, genuine, and drama-free. Discretion is important to us, and we offer the same in return.

What We’re Looking For:

Couples (around our age or mature in mind) who are friendly, fun, and not in a rush. We’d love to meet new people to build genuine connections — maybe share a wine, have a laugh, and enjoy the journey together. Bonus points if you enjoy good food, conversation, and slow-burn tension. 😉

If you’re also into soft swap, and value connection over numbers, feel free to drop us a message — we’re always up for a friendly chat to start with.

Let’s make it fun, relaxed, and respectful for everyone. 😊