01/06/2025 -Not seeking new connections. We will be attending events, enjoying those.😇‘We’ are All Seven Spots, a married couple (F/M).

We are here to attend events, munches, parties, and meet with our friends in the Fet & KS Community's in real life. 💕Not wrong, just different💕 our reason might not be the same as yours, we respect that. We're funny, (over) educated, intelligent people with a sense of (dark) humour. We are safe people to be very direct with, our reaction will be positive, regardless of our response. We are confidently ourselves. In the ‘vanilla world’ we hid to fit in. We can be a lot of fun, we love to chat, laugh. We spent years living around and in the LGBTQ+, on Auckland’s K-Road long before moving to Wellington.

SHE, (37F) is seeking a deeper connection to her femininity, to hit 'all seven spots'.🦋 She is a professional with very real need for privacy. She is not comfortable with CIS men. (Sad history, it is what is). She is comfortable with and attracted to females/trans/pan/ non binary persons. Due her history, our style is relaxed, and gentle, with frequent checks to ensure she’s comfortable. It’s important, to prevent her being triggered or having a flashback.

HIM, (47M) is seeking a better understanding of his own sexuality, interests,🦋 and to support her having new experiences in a way that keeps both safe, and supports both sexualities. He, is a former professional, now tradie. He is attracted to men (more usually if they are openly gay)/ femininity /trans/pan/ non binary persons. 420 Friendly.

Our Time in the Community

Taught us we can be 🌈open💕 to different situations, with different people.😊 That we are both sapiosexual; strongly attracted to intelligence, and confidence. If your personality is strong willed and forceful, it is engaging and attractive to us both, even more so if you are direct. When we are both attracted to someone (who also likes us), we like to know them, and they need to know about us. That takes a time.🥰

Playtime Style

She enjoys some types of fetish clothing (corsets), some pain is pleasure to him, some sensation is ecstasy. She enjoys privately showing someone special how to pull all those strings and make him dance. She also enjoys sensuality, caress, touch, affection, wax. There isn’t always a sexual pleasure link to what we consider ‘just for fun’, so there’s room to grow within each new community relationship. Different strokes, with different folks.

Communicating with us & Comments

Site activity is generally HIM, participating within the community, so much as it possible with a busy life. Unless a message is directed to HER, in which case she will answer. We always respond to messages. We use a popular messageing service with groups to communicate with 'our community friends' so we can both participate.

Our Base Rules

• We play together, safely, privately, we make all our decisions together.

• Consent is important, to prevent her being triggered or having a flashback.

• Safe sex, only, we want to protect your health, as much as ours.

• We are ethical. We will not knowingly enable unethical play. If you are breaking you own commitments to play, please don’t contact us. If we discover it, we won’t be happy.

We have the essential white picket lifestyle, and kids, so we're super private, we ask for understanding, respect for our normal life and we'll do the same.