Welcome to the Black Kat lounge — Invite only swinger club.

House Rules & Etiquette!

This is a space for grown, self-aware adults who know how to flirt, socialize, and behave with respect.

Consent Is mandatory

If it’s not a clear yes, it’s a no.

No means No. A polite “no thanks” should never bruise your ego.

Always ask before touching.

Every couple is different. Follow their rules, not your fantasies.

An invite to one of our events is not an invite to someone’s body.

Socialise first. Flirt. Tease. Connect.

If the vibe isn’t there, gracefully move on.

Those who read the room well tend to fit in very well

Behaviour That Belongs Here

Be charming, not pushy.

No hovering, cornering, or interrupting others play.

No pressure, or entitlement — instant removal and ban from future parties.

Treat everyone like someone you’d like to see again.

No photos. No videos in play spaces No exceptions.

Drink responsibly — sloppy isn’t sexy.

If you’re visibly too intoxicated, you may be asked to call it a night.

Condoms are cool. STIs are not. Protect your pleasure.

Clean up after yourselves and respect the space.

Be honest. Be open. Clear communication with your partner, fellow guests and hosts. Most importantly—have fun!

Our word is final — always.

Rule breakers will be removed.

We protect our community fiercely.

Vetting

Black Kat lounge evets are invite-only.

We vet because the right people make all the difference.

What We’re Looking For

Respectful adults.

Clear communicators.

People who understand consent and boundaries, who can socialize without expectations.