What are the different ways, experiences, starting points people have had here with their VERY FIRST swap. Specifically talking about MFM here but other stuff is okay as it all adds to the pot of discussion. What is being talked about here is from the first time you answered the knock on the motel room door and there stands the "bull" or couple.
Shake hands then come on in, introduce yourselves... then WHAT?
How did it progress for you? How did the initial meeting go? What happened? How did it happen? Who said what? Who did what? How many times did you do stuff? Who initiated what? Did you go back for second helpings?
Your thoughts for new comers may help.
Have a great day.
The initial meeting/introduction did not take place at the motel room door - I would guess for most first timers they had already met alsewhere in a neutral/public/safe setting and by the time motels come into it everything that needs to be said has been. lol
Nice reply and fair comments indeed. Good idea about the safe neutrality of it as well. But what after that? Straight into it first time, each time straight into it or something else? Just queries. Kiss on the cheek when you meet or more.
no expectations more than just that.
We have met a lot of couples a parties or clubs.
People often wrongly think that a club or party is an all out orgy and a free-for-all.
They are a good way to meet people - real swingers.
You can learn so much from others by chatting and you dont have to participate any more than that, if dont want to.
I always think, from my point of view that mff's or mfm's are easier to start off than more mulitples as normally I take charge (minnie) we have always met beforehand for a drink or coffee somewhere neutral to make sure playing is what we wanna do. Then I usually after a couple of drinks at home/motel room will take the lead.
In a multiples situation, especially for the first time we have our play dice that we like to use and they have proved their worth over the years.
But damn I'd love a spa ;-)
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S & S
Dice is a good option, as is strip cards or twister.
We have a game called 4play
Lingerie show, underwear only,
Spa is great option to get people used to being naked in close proximity to others.
Of course the straight to the point "Would you like to........?"
If it is the ladies who take the lead, actions speak much louder than words and we are yet to see the men try or want to stop them when this happens.
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