Sexual independence is a beautiful thing. Since gaining mine and becoming free to do what, who I want, and when I choose has been a liberation to say the least! 🤩
Lots of people have a Bucket List so I decided it’s time for a Fuckit List – both are equally important in my eyes. It's a list of places, people, situations and some stuff in between that I've thought would be hot, or just plain fun. Some I have done (actually more than some), some I still want to do…
What do you think? What would you add?
1. 3 some FMF
2. 3 some MMF
3. Spit roast (who gets to be piggy in the middle?)
4. Outdoors in a field
5. At a swingers party
6. CCK (ok, that's been done but lets do it again!)
7. Watching others while being watched (oh so delicious)
8. On a plane
9. On a train
10. On a boat
11. Not sure on the moat (LOL)
12. Over a balcony on the top floor/penthouse while watching the lights of the city
13. On a swing (sexy kind, not the kiddy kind)
14. On a playground (that’s where the kiddy swings are!)
15. In a spa
16. In a pool
17. Would a sauna be too hot? Lets find out!
18. With a friend (cause friends you can fuck are the BEST friends!)
19. In the rain
20. In the snow
21. On a beach
22. Host a party for all my sexy friends (my birthday is in June, just saying...)
23. On a bouncy castle
24. Trampoline
25. Backseat of a car (would you believe I’ve never done that?)
26. On an oiled up waterbed (do they still make those??)
27. Have an orgy (hang on, does CCK and a party not count as this? Who cares LOL)
28. While on a walk through Woodhill forest
29. DP
30. DVP (still not sure on that one but I’ll give it a go!)
31. And while we’re at it, lets have one in each entry (what the heck is that called?)
32. Against a wall
33. In the shower
34. On the kitchen table
35. Kitchen bench
36. In a lift
37. Sex while eating (had pizza so far, it was great!)
38. Use edible paint (or perhaps chocolate) and then lick it off
39. With a strap on (both the wearer and receiver)
40. Have a blindfold party (aka - touchy feely party)
41. Install a secret sex room in my house (long term plan 😊)
42. Sensation sex (hot/cold/soft/hard)
43. Against a window for all to see
44. In a movie theatre (discreetly of course)
45. Find ways to make myself or my partner cum without penetration
46. Make my own sex toys (and use them of course)
47. Explore different kink styles (bondage, spanking, etc)
48. Share a BJ with another girl
49. Share a BJ with a guy 🔥
50. Get serviced by 3 guys at the same time
51. Erotic paint session
52. In a stairwell
53. In the change room at the gym
54. Seduce a complete stranger (not in the lifestyle)
55. Have a “partner in crime” to explore more scenarios/positions with
56. Kama Sutra party
57. Seduce a client (who says you can’t mix business with pleasure!)
58. Go on a sexy road trip
59. Blacklight or glow in the dark party
60. In the back of a ute, under the stars (yeah, ok, I can be romantic too..)
61. Naked Twister
62. At each end of NZ (in each end... hmmm, maybe)
63. Attend a kink party (do you think I like the group thing just a little?)
64. At a concert or gig (may have to just be a feel session cause I literally dance all night)
65. Quick stop at a rest stop (how about each one on a road trip?)
66. Tantric massage (only just learned about this - my 2 favourite things, massage and sex)
67. Mould my bits in clay or something similar and make them into functional pieces or art (decoration for the sex room maybe?)
68. Fun with food not all things go in your mouth (just don’t get them stuck!)
69. While I’m on the subject of food - Jelly wrestling!
70. Sex or car bonnet (thanks Discrete!)
71. Lets do it bent over the boot of the car as well!
72. Upside down - I have no idea how that would work but it could be fun!
73. Perfect my cunninglingus technique. This is going to take a bit of practice - dammit!
74. See how many girls I can make squirt at a party. (What? Did I say that? Yes I did 😈)
75. Spend an entire 24 hours naked and in bed (or wherever else we end up)
76. An encounter in the dark - Meet a complete stranger (organised through someone I trust, for safety) in a hotel room with the lights off. No talking. Just feeling. Smelling. Tasting. Exploring.
There's so much more to add to the list... I'll keep coming back to add more items as they come to mind. Tell me what you'd add as well!