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She's keen but he's hesitantant - any advice?

Warming the Bed
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Just take things slowly

Don't do anything (or anyone 😜) that you might regret later

Try visiting club CCK! 😉

There is no pressure to play - you can just be voyeurs and watch others exploring and playing if you wish...

Or You can just play with eachother!

You don't have to play with anyone else - People are required to ask for permission to touch (consent is important)

Decide on your rules/boundaries and talk about them before you go.

If you go - go EARLY

Then you have plenty of time to get the full tour and advise, Before the place is in full 'swing' (which can be quite confronting for your first time)

Also the cover charge is much cheaper during Happy hour.

There are Masquerade nights if you want to remain anonymous or are worried you might Bang into somebody you know.

Ask other couples and swingers for advice on their experiences - maybe even put up a post in the KS forum 😋

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Quote by Lusty6969

Make it all about him

Definitely not if he is shy and doesn’t like being the centre of attention.

Forum Virgin
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We started off together but he was more interested in hearing about my sexcapades, and is also very shy. So now I play alone, and he enjoys having a slutty wife.

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Yeah I think that's kinda him - boys huh? 😕