I apologise if this has been on this forum before.
My wife and I have been talking about our fantasies, and the idea of Hotwifing came up. I am incredibly turned on by the idea of my wife being fucked by another man and how arroused she gets thinking about it. I also would want to join in and participate. I don't want to be cukolded, as I want to participate in my wife's pleasure.
Where I am confused is I am also jealous of her liking it more than what we all ready have. We have a great active sex life and enjoy each other regularly.
Is being jealous normal, does that mean we are not ready? She is incredibly turned on by the idea to the point of telling me she is masterbating and is ready for me when I get home from work. And I keep thinking about what am I not doing to have her like that for me.
But I also want to see her pleasured. And have her so tuned on she can't stop fucking.
Any input I would appreciated it, maybe from another wife or a husband.
I know it takes a bit of getting your head around but you are perfectly normal. I was surprised to find I like it, and as I am an exhibitionist as well, it makes me want to "outfuck" the other guy as well, sounds strange but true, I also love it when Debs gets someone else off (male or female).
We would say quite normal.
Your thoughts and concerns are also normal. What you have mentioned is a part of the picture.
There are many who jump in without considering the consequences fully. This can be a recipe for disaster.
It really comes down to if you are totally secure in your relationship and that you both can separate the act of sex from love.
Sex does not equal love.
Sex is physical, love is emotional, when both come together that is the ultimate.
You must be secure enough that you know your partner is not looking for a relationship replacement. Alternate and/or additional sex partners sure.
There will be guys that are bigger, last longer, different techniques..etc etc....This is the reality.
As yes it can be as much fun, sometimes more, watching your partner enjoying themselves so much "in the moment" as it is participating yourself
All you can do is discuss it all fully together.
As to if you are ready, only you can answer that.
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