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~~A lost member R.I.P~ Updated with Dodgey Memorial in chat

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[img:649f49bb06]http://www.kiwiswingers.co.nz/personals/photos/20100809/a82904cf.jpg[/img:649f49bb06] I have been asked to pass on some very sad news to our members. A much loved member Dodgey1 passed away on the 2nd April 2011. His funeral was held at 3pm in Dunedin on the 8th April 2011. Dodgey was a huge part of our community and will be sorley missed by many here and remembered for a long long time by those he met online and in real life. Our hearts go our to Dodgey's family and friends. [b:649f49bb06]Dodgey's family have chosen to print out this thread and leave it with him today so that he knows just how much we all think of him. Thank you so much Smoothas, i am sure we all appreciate such a wonderful gesture [/b:649f49bb06] If any members need someoen to talk to on reading this please feel free to message me in chat or send me a mail. Dodgeys brother Smoothas will also check his mail but please be patient for responses as obviously his family is in a lot of pain right now. This post will be left as sticky at least until the funeral and possibly longer in memory of Dodgey1 sad public profie picture posted with permission from Dodgeys family
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What can i say our hearts are saddened I hope you find people like us in the next life Ritch/Lise
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So sad to hear of a members passing sad R.I.P. dodgey, i know you will be sorely missed :upset:
Warming the Bed
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Oh my goodness - RIP dodgey - will miss you in the chat - thoughts go out to your friends family.
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awwww i was just chatting to him the other day and damm he was cheeky ... my thaughts and preyers are with his family
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I couldnt believe it when I heard you were gone, thank you for the awesome memories U will be missed. This site wont be the same for me without you sad You had an awesome sense of humor and were an amazing man, hope you are at peace now xxxx
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Thoughts and prayers to family and loved ones. I enjoyed Dodgey's humour and will miss his chat. May you rest in peace Dodgey.
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As others have said, Dodgey was such a gentleman, and a tease, a better tease than most women lol. He loved mountain biking and he loved his child too, he will be sorely missed by myself and many others in the chatroom Kia kaha to his loved ones left behind, and may you be at peace now Dodgey xxx
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You will Be sadly missed.. on the occassions we talked you brought a lot of laughter. R.I.P dodgey much love to your family xxxxxxxxxx
Sexlightened
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Words can not express how much I am sadden by this news. I'm absolutely shattered. Dodgey was such a sweet man and incredibly easy to talk to. His love for his son was such a breath of fresh air. His retro wallpaper will ALWAYS make me giggle (Goodness knows how many times him and I had a laugh over this) I'll miss you Dodgey. That contagious smile of yours will never be replaced. Lots of love to all those who knew what a sweet, gentle man he was. Sweet dreams my friend. xxxxx
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Smoothas ( Dodgey's brother ) called today to let me know that Dodgey's funeral will be this friday at 3pm in Dunedin. He has said that if anyone would like to know more information to please contact him through the site mail. Today has been a hard day on everyone i think learnign this horribly sad news. Can i please ask for everyone to be mindful that Dodgey was very important to some of our fellow members in chat and to please be respectful during any conversations in regards to this post and Dodgey's passing. For me, Dodgey was an amazing man. I remember many conversations when he just knew something was troubling me and with his caring and wit he would draw it out of me and make me feel so much better. I deeply regret not knowing him in person but hope he knows just how much he meant to me as a far away friend. heart ya Dodgey
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I have just found out about this awful news. I am truely sorry to hear of this. I hope you will be happy in your new life and that the Angels above look after you. My thoughts go out to Dodgeys family, I hope in time you will find peace. xxxxxx
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You really were one of the good guys. Your wave hello always brightened the evening - articulate, friendly and funny (and sexy!) - you will be sadly missed. I feel privileged to have known you. Rest easy my friend xxxx
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As a fellow Dunedinite, Both mrs Southern and I were sadden to hear of Dodgeys passing. A great sense of humour and also fun to chat with ... RIP... Mr and Mrs Southern2
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Excpet he was a great member to chat too and will be sorely missed from not only here but from the life of those who he touched. Condolences and best wishes to those who he did touch in his short life. RIP Dodgey
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Dodgey, i was deeply sadened to hear of your passing but hope you are liking your new surrounding. We chatted on the odd occassion and you were chatted about to me by the odd member *wink wink* Maybe you could set up a kiwiswingers site for us when we arrive to join you. I'm sure you will have all the bugs worked out by the time most of us join you surprised) I hope you have now found peace. Smoothas: My deepest heart felt condolances to you and your family. I know at this time words don't mean anything and they are just that a bunch of words. I hope further down the track you can read through all these comments and take stregth from everyones word's ((((((((((Biggest Hugs))))))))) to you and your family from my family, your Bro will be missed by more people than he thought. Our thoughts are with you Couriouscouple & MrCC
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Very sad news Dodgey...... So full of life and one of the nice ones too...... wonderful warm smile and a joy to have known. You touched so many people on this site with your kindness, friendliness and humour. Will miss you. Sandwich..........
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from this side of the world -as you used to tell me- We will drink that beer anyway bro!. Ekindu
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Wow, Just read the news, and I'm shocked. I've chatted with Dodgey just recently, and I thought that he had a good wit and a great sense of humour. I'm sad that I won't have the pleasure of chatting with him again. Rest in Peace Dodge, It's clear that you'll be sorely missed around here.
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Hi guys I was waiting to hear back from smoothas but I am sure they wont mind ( and have confirmed with admin) This Friday night I will open up a Dodgey memorial chat room, unpassworded, for those who wish to pop in and have a chat about what a great guy and friend he was. Feel free to pop in, or not of course too. All I ask is that the room is used for the purpose it was intended. It will be moderated of course but I dont want to have to be kicking people out of course.
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That is a great idea A I was just saying to hypnotic yesterday we should do something for him, still cant believe he is gone sad I will definitely be there to remember the wonderful man we got to know and miss so very much xxx
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Sounds perfect Aims. Mr and I will be popping in for sure. heart
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:sad: Thankyou So Much For Making Me Laugh And Smile When i Was In The Most Foulest Of Moods..And It Didnt Take Much For You To Brake Me lol I Will Miss You Heaps And The Crazy Conversations Everyone Enjoys Having With You xox Much love to your Family. We Know You Will Be Ok And Safe.. Love Ya xxxxxxxxxxx wink
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Hi guys and girls. Please have a revisit of the first post as it has a wonderful picture of Dodgey along with some more information on the funeral today.
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R.I.P dodgey you were a wonderful guy to chat too always funny and witty may you kick ya heels up with the angels RAISES my glass to dodgey xxxxxxxx
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our thoughts go out to to u i really loved chatting to u and really going to miss your chats had to stop and think who anj said it was and had a blonde moment and was only talking to u a fortnight ago lay in peace sweets love topcat and linus xx
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wat can we say u will be sorely missed and u surely are in a better place god always takes the best ones and u certainly were the best we will miss you alot you will always be in our hearts
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Hi all, We would like to thank you all for your kind words and thoughts following Dodgeys unexpected death. We printed out your messages and after reading these to Dodgey we placed them with him. He may be gone, but will never be forgotten. We look forward to catching up with some of you sometime soon. Thanks again. Take care Smoothas
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[quote:67b64a0fe4="smoothas"]Hi all, We would like to thank you all for your kind words and thoughts following Dodgeys unexpected death. We printed out your messages and after reading these to Dodgey we placed them with him. He may be gone, but will never be forgotten. We look forward to catching up with some of you sometime soon. Thanks again. Take care Smoothas[/quote:67b64a0fe4] Smooths I know many of us continue to think of your brother often and would like to say a huge thank you to you as well for giving our messages to him. You are a fabulous couple and we are always around if needed.
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I never heard about him, however I came to know about his part in this community. I would say I am unlucky to had a chance to see him as a person, but hey GOD (in my words Giver, Operator, Destroyer) won't keep good person here because they have to be by the side of him to know better about this wonderful world RIP gentle man